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And so it starts... on 2008-04-30 22:19:48 |
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Oh, I also laugh every time I see Pegg playing "recon" by jumping over the fences til he gets to the last one where there is a trampoline and he just ninja flips over the wall:P That is hilarious.
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And so it starts... on 2008-04-30 22:18:34 |
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You used the word COCK...Red flag:P It's just a very clean-sweeping language buffer. So, to avoid it, dont make another cock-up:P Make a mistake or error:P I cant remember what part I liked best other than the big shoot out when Pegg rides in on that horse(or was it a donkey?) with all the guns he collected from that NRA nut. I was not happy with all the gore and violence, though. Had it been less gorey, I would have rated it better.
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A Great Head of Hair--women's haircuts on 2008-04-29 23:38:17 |
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Those first few links require you to be a member of that site, Aph'. Not cool.
And, the bun instructions would be nicer if they were in ENGLISH. What language is that text? Sure, much could be figured out from the pictures, but still.
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And so it starts... on 2008-04-29 21:48:46 |
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I have no idea what the financial matters were about. Darn Manchester lingo:P But, I got giddy seeing "Hot Fuzz village". That was a nice village:P But, crazy people there. Despite what others say, I think it was one of the best movies of last year.
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Born Without Lips on 2008-04-29 21:20:56 |
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I stopped reading when you told her to F off. This just sounds like an ugly game of two desperate people. You are both like cold starving creatures toying with each other over scraps of food in the cold. The cold has made you crazy. You bark and snap at each other one minute, then wimper and lick wounds the next. Whether it was just a random lashing out or not, I dont feel good about this at all. I too get tired of such games. I think the next time someone says bye, I warned them enough...I will just let them go.
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I need to talk on 2008-04-28 00:58:57 |
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I have read enough of these first time posts to feel like I am drifting at sea into a muck of brain vomit. Many here are just looking for an alternative life like you said, but how can this be any better than talking to family or friends when you have them? And, if you are hesitant to say/discuss it here, then what do you achieve? If you hold it in, how destructive might that be?
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George on 2008-04-28 00:41:30 |
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So, where did George fit into all that?:P did I miss something? I like everything you had to say here:) I can totally relate. Though, I am surprised you didnt have the internet and cell phones when you were there. You are years younger than me, and I know the internet kicked in big time after I was out. Maybe cell phones came later still? But, everything you said--minus maybe the smell--I could relate.
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Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 01:18:27 |
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Oh, and since you mentioned the S word here anyway, you have not avoided the subject completely:P Cramps to be you:)
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Some Thoughts on Friends on Thoughts on 2008-04-27 01:17:17 |
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Awwwh:( Im gonna miss you most of all, Crampcr--er, Scarecrow:P Thanks for the notice:P You remind me of what I did my senior year of high school. Though I barely knew my class, I wrote a lil something to each of them and printed copies to hand out because I could not say all I wanted to to everyone in a tiny senior quote. They thought about making a plaque for me in the computer room for using the most paper ever:P The heads were not happy with me but later were awed by my effort. I wish my classmates were. Most could have cared less. Why? Well, for some, I hardly knew them and had nothing to write really...but I still wanted to say "hey, I didnt get to know you, but you were in my class and I recognize you for it."
So, it seems you and bullseye should get a room if yer not married:P And, the rest...well, yer still learning about us:) One of these days I might make a post like this.
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if i could be a little girl in your arms again on 2008-04-27 00:18:05 |
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If only I could fly down there and hug you now. Let all those tears out into my sleeve til we are underwater:P I wish I could help or change the channel to make things better. Set life to a way that would hopefully make us both happy. I dont know all the ins and outs of your situation, but I can sympathize. I know what it is like to feel your roots--if we were trees--are torn from the ground. You dont feel like you have a sure foot to stand on. I really dont know what else to say. HOPE.
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Laughter is Inner Jogging on 2008-04-26 23:29:48 |
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Kariyajin, I did not know of that custom, but that sounds very honorable:) I see nothing wrong with that "ancient" custom. It is closure. It is what prevents someone like her from doing what she is doing by forever reliving the pain by looking or even knowing the item is there. I too have treasures from people I no longer see or talk to, and it pains me to have them anywhere near. I wanted to return them but could not as they moved away. So, I cannot get rid of them either, but I hid them away as missmarie suggests. Someday, though, I will force myself to throw them out. I dont care what value they hold. The feeling must pass into death.
Aphrodite, either sell the frame or give it to someone you care about who you know will appreciate it. Pass on your good wishes to someone who will accept them. Do NOT carry this pain like an arrow in the chest the rest of your days. Repeat tears are worthless.
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1-800-BUZ-ZOFF!!! on 2008-04-26 00:04:19 |
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I like the Seinfeld method. When they call--IF you are fortunate enough to get a real person--you tell them you are sorry to be so busy...ask them if they can give you their number so you can call them back later...when they refuse, you say "well, now you know how I feel" and hang up:)
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Circus on 2008-04-25 23:56:25 |
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Ew never! You ...who wants facial hair??:P
I have never been to a circus, that I can remember. I guess I never felt the magic. But, I always wanted to see as a kid. Now, I could care less;/ Magic shows and acrobatics do nothing for me now.
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"Touch my tongue Dont know what tastes good to me" on 2008-04-25 23:45:19 |
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I'd hug you if I could, but you don't want that nor what may follow...
Sounds like you had an epiphany of maturity. As did Miss Monroe.
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How Do You Paint Goodbye? on 2008-04-25 19:15:03 |
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I think you ladies missed the boat:P I blame Aphrodite up there:P She started it with her End a Friendship post:P kidding.
DS, you are going to have to explain that one to me. Maybe return your emails/calls:P
Gwat, I was not talking about how to paint/draw a picture after losing someone. I said drawing their picture when I am still with them or interested in them seems to push them away or causes some strange parting event to take place.
missmarie, the woman with the ever changing picture and sexual expert:P, I dont know where you were going. But, I wasn't using my "beautiful" art against anyone. Nor is anyone using it against me. I said it caused a rift in the "relationship". It makes no sense, really. Why would honoring someone in a picture cause two people to fall out?
Especially if the subject liked the picture.
circe, believe it or not. I have not entered the contest for the reason I stated. And, this is hardly a contest worthy post:P...wait, was it at least 300 words? Awww:(...:P
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The Girl in the Mirror on 2008-04-25 00:48:13 |
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Hey, that makes 2 posts I can smile at:) And, this one even has a decent title:P Now, granted, I am not a supporter of narcissismisisiss... nor acting more childish as an adult. I am still uncertain of the ways of eternal youth. But, I can clearly see the mirror lover here:P All the pics of herself sing loud and clear. A self study isn't always a bad thing...but stare too long and you get lost in yourself. Just as Narcisus(or however you spell his name) got lost in the lake while Echo sat beside him hoping he would hear her repeat everything said to her.
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through the looking glass, darkly on 2008-04-25 00:28:38 |
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I think honesty is healthy and deserved anywhere. But, that could just be my astrology talking:P I could go on for hours crapping about kindness, respect, sensitivity, etc. Truth be told, people--even here...especially here--don't accept the truth they desire. It's that military movie about "good men" shouting "you can't handle the truth!"
Are you spilling about your entry?:P cant hold it in?
Why did you mention that first? And, yes, expressing self-doubt about it too.
If you are uncomfortable reading other's stories/thoughts...why do it? Why not leave a post alone? Do you randomly peek in on various posts without regard for what you might be getting into? Check the sign on the door first? I imagine it would be just as uncomfortable if you walked in on someone having a personal conversation as well. Just a thought.
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NEW :-) on 2008-04-25 00:19:12 |
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Sounds awesome:P Wait, Madonna appeared after talking to God with this gizmo thing? Weird. I dont associate her with God at all:P Depending on how you feel about her...Id take it as either a warning about Delaware or a reason to go. Perhaps it means if you go, you will be a celebrity? The maze could just represent fear of the unknown...you fear getting lost in a new place.
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Why I'm on the Edge on 2008-04-24 23:49:49 |
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The more you protest the assurance, the less you believe it and the less people will give it:P She will take back what she said and say "Fine, I tried. Sit with your misery." Some tell me it is the vibe I give off that turns people away. You are maybe projecting this "dont talk to or ask me" energy yourself. People must be afraid to speak for some reason. I cant say its all your fault either. Shrug. Best of luck.
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Killer Cramps on 2008-04-24 23:45:42 |
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I think it was a body slap to the face for some of your horny antics in posts lately:P The cramp called you out "b****":P heh. jk. Oh you have kids...
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What is the Best Way to End a Friendship? on 2008-04-24 19:30:38 |
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Can we get past the whole cloak and dagger bit and just admit this is about Aphrodite and an older male friend?:P If it's not and I've got it wrong, then forgive me. But if this is her/you we are talking about, Im agitated by the third person talk.
It all sounds like a confusing high school mess of young budding hormonal people having a typical conflict of interests when their bodies change. People change as they age. Tastes change. Feelings change. That is why many fall in and out of "love". Even if they have the undying love of friendship...the kind that you feel deep down and know you can never hate the person even if they can no longer share life with you.
I cannot clearly comment/explain any of it because I do not know these two personally. It's one of those "you had to be there" situations. If I was a classmate who heard this second hand, what would I really know? And, would my opinion be biased to the person I liked more? It's easy to side with girls/women.
I think you asked me to answer what you answer yourself, Aph. You are happy to get opinions, but you yourself are sorting it all out well enough. Yes, if it was a juicy bittersweet dramatic lie, perhaps that would make things more like a hot bath than an icicle to the chest. For water signs, that does seem the better way to go...slow and warmly. Not cold and quick. You are a water sign, afterall. If that was how he wanted it, I'd say at least he had a heart to care about your sensitivity.
Consider yourself one lucky young woman to get THIS much attention to your first post claiming to be your last. I suppose everyone likes a pity case:) Many "mothers" on here.
Id like to see this anime wallpaper:) Its an awesome lil image.
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yeah yeah...it's been a while... on 2008-04-24 01:14:42 |
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I might like you as my personal assistant:) But, I cant guarantee what you would get officially paid. I have an alternate payment offer:P heh. O gawd, I gotta get to bed:) Bad brainstormer, bad bad bad.
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My Ex Best Friend and her New Baby Girl on 2008-04-23 22:41:04 |
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Name changed? But, MMM, thats hot:P That lil one is gonna grow up big and tall. She probably will be a model.
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Is it the sign? on 2008-04-22 23:43:03 |
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It amazes me how a simple conversation can wow someone so much. Is it that bad that conversation is so dead? Are we really so far gone that NOT starting with talk about boobs and sex is so rare? Falling in love cuz a guy online said hi and goodnight and asked about interests. Im really worried for this world.
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What is the Best Way to End a Friendship? on 2008-04-22 23:34:22 |
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I couldn't read the whole of it because it is a touchy, personal subject matter that bothers me deeply. I DID however have a similar experience which became quite difficult to resolve and/or end. Just the thought is painful.
Upon looking at the nice profile pic of the asian girl with flower petals blowing past her face, I find myself thinking of Memoirs of a Geisha(a really nice pic, Aphrodite:)).
I dont have a good answer to the question. But, I think of a cartoon I saw once where the only way the guy could part with his friend was to say goodbye and then keep running never looking back.
Ironically, I just wrote a post with a similar title about a similar matter:)
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Men, what do you want? on 2008-04-21 20:54:27 |
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Oh yea, and if she can make the "first move", that's often hot as well:P
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Men, what do you want? on 2008-04-21 20:52:51 |
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I think this topic has been covered quite extensively elsewhere...Im sure you can find my interests/tastes in my posts and comments:P
But, I tend to focus physically on the waist up and want someone who can keep up or even challenge me physically(not a lag that will drag me down). I like a nice head of hair that can be worked with. Eyes that inspire and light fires. Preferably not a bigger beakish nose. Personality is nice when she can be very reserved or shy in public and then open up more in private...potentially even being a creative romantic whos imagination dazzles my own. I also have other lil interests/likes you can read about/find in my posts about "what's hot". Two sort of big things as well...low-maintenance/fuss and someone who is close to my 5'10" height. Anyone under 5'4" is a bit difficult to connect with.
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The Most Beautiful Person I Know on 2008-04-21 20:39:30 |
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Sounds like an amazing guy and sorta makes me feel like a bum. Holy crap, he is over 40? Whats that make you?
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Gaming... on 2008-04-20 15:14:48 |
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Oh, did you look up DWTS? I think it was Louie and Priscilla last time?
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Gaming... on 2008-04-20 15:11:15 |
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Yea, you really broke out the geek now:P I should have known you had it in ya. I cant get myself to devote any time to that stuff. I tried one site for a while and it was fun. But, its like sugary cereal...it is empty calories that dont amount to anything. Ive come to learn video games are more fun with two people who can laugh at each other. Its the way I started with Atari. When I found myself playing alone, I had no one to turn to when something funny or amazing happenned...and the thrill was gone. And, to try and explain this to someone who "had to be there"...I dont know, does that work?
Perhaps you'd like to share a lil about these game sites? I dont care for the sites that offer some free and then pay areas. If I want to be fair, I should pay to play. I should realize nothing in life is really free unless given from the heart(and that is a cost of heart).
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So unhappy on 2008-04-20 03:48:28 |
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That seems to be a real shame both what you are finding yourself doing even though you feel it is wrong and then having a wife browbeat you into feeling you owe her so much. It seems like if she doesnt/didnt like how you did things and you two didnt come to an agreement, it should not have happenned no matter how hot you think she is. If you have kids and stick with her yet she keeps calling you gay and feeling unappreciated, that is not living. That is torture.
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EARTH DAY on 2008-04-20 03:40:48 |
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Well, would you rather celebrate the Apocalypse?:P Yay, end of the world day...(party horn fizzles)
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ARt class on 2008-04-20 03:37:59 |
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The other bitter irony is that I might like to be an art teacher, but most of the art teachers Ive known really ticked me off.
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ARt class on 2008-04-20 03:36:08 |
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Im a lil confused by what you were trying to convey...the art teacher was taking over your projects and making you feel bad?
There is a point of constructive criticism and then there is what that sounded like. No teacher should ever touch a student's work unless grading it. The point of art class is kind of a joke. The teacher should really be there to inspire, not to direct or teach too much unless it is about historical arts. If it is a hands on class, the teacher can teach technique and should be able to convey in words or by own example.
Otherwise, you should be free to work your thoughts out.
To be honest, no artist really needs help other than input maybe. But, no class can teach you to be a great artist. Art comes from within. It is possibly the only class like that. The rest are forms of wisdom implemented for a purpose.
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Will you give me back my dime? on 2008-04-19 02:34:33 |
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Um, Nice height...
You have your own ID named website? what is this countdown thing?? Not another one of those "here is a clipshow" specials.
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a blog is a blog is a cazblue stuck in a bog on 2008-04-19 00:25:55 |
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So you are a half-drunken Italian who thought "since half the world is doing it, why not me too?":P
----flatlines--------
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Dumb Dream on 2008-04-18 23:32:25 |
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Im liking the fact you cover dreams so well now that Ive looked back from your recent one about the vampire:P
Perhaps this has to do with the receptionist thing?(which I havent read yet:P) In my nightmares, when I would cry out for help, it was always a scream that I could never speak. It was terrifying to be unable to scream. But, for you, its using the phone to call 911. Id say either this simply is some TV moment that got lodged in your memory/subconscious. Or a message to you that when you think you need help, dont rush to ask/call for it. Or could it be the opposite and tell you to ask for help that you dont or say you cant?
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My Dream of Angelina Jolie on 2008-04-18 23:27:18 |
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Or should I say a fear of strangers violating my privacy. Like a fear of rape or a stalker type. Someone that might touch me that I dont know and then get a bad feeling about.
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My Dream of Angelina Jolie on 2008-04-18 23:26:00 |
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Yea, but why would a dream come AFTER? You said you HAD. Is there something that has brought that person back into mind? I often have nightmares about bad school days of the past and see faces I never want to see again. But, I dont know why.
It seems the translation of a vampire dream is all over the map. Even I could have come up with all those explanations:P I have an imagination. I didnt need a website to give me those ideas:P Other than maybe the virginity one which is interesting...
To me, a vampire always seemed to symbolize fear of strangers. A vampire looms and then strikes. So, I always picture a stranger whom I can't get out of my mind that I thought was scary and didn't want to get me...no different than a "boogeyman". Plus, I hate the sight of blood/gore.
I've had 2 vampire dreams in my lifetime, and both were at a young age after seeing some commercial for a show or movie. The first involved "Bunnicula" and the second I think was a Jeff Goldblume movie with a hot blonde vampire...but in the dream, she was a horned bat that bit me in the butt...and suddenly I was a bat being "horned" from the rear...I woke up with bad gas pains:P TMI, I know.
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The Talk of Stories on 2008-04-18 00:31:44 |
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Oh, I thought the other guy was metaphorical or implied:P I didnt think it was "theotherguy".;/
Um,...weird science?
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ohhhh god if i just could on 2008-04-17 23:32:04 |
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Wow, I should start at the bottom and read backwards with one eye covered:P Start with the E.
Here's a lil techno' foolproof tip. Considering technology isn't so foolproof...try highlight, right click and saving the whole shebang in a text file on yer PC and then just putting a copy into the submission area. If it fails, at least you have it all backed up. ;)wink-DING!
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My Dream of Angelina Jolie on 2008-04-17 23:13:49 |
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Three degrees of separation! See, Angelina was born a Gemini in a Rabbit year in chinese astrology. In the 80s, there was a children's book called "Bunnicula" about a vampire bunny(which along with the TV series V gave me nightmares at a very young age)...coincidence?\;)
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My Dream of Angelina Jolie on 2008-04-17 23:11:15 |
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That was short and hawt:P If not for some of the weird stuff she has done, Id find her even hotter:P You know the old song "I dreeeam of Jeannie with the light bro-own haaair"? Well, I just thought to change it to "I dreeeam Angelina Jolie wa-as there...and maaade love to me as a vampire!(or however the next line goes:P)"
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What makes you read a blog? on 2008-04-17 20:39:36 |
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As she rolls around in her ecstacy flavored cat food:P Easytosay, you're fuh-nee:P
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The Great Unknown on 2008-04-17 03:19:13 |
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Well, at least she knows how to write properly;) Your friends and teachers serve you well. Keep up the good work. Just dont run on and on with the word BLOG:P By the way, you really sound sad when you say "that old Robin Williams movie". That was a terrible remake:P And, for me, not that old.
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What makes you read a blog? on 2008-04-17 03:10:06 |
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Smiles and rolls his knuckles into his cheeks:D
I cant say Im hooked on any one person's "blog"...but I do find myself checking yours out, dont I?:P But, you hardly put in the effort that I do:P Heck, who does?:P
Good question, QD. I have yet to find anything I really like to read about...although the occasional humorous philosophy like pitapie50 and her boob flap situation was a winner for me or the first post that grabbed my attention back in October of last year by risingmoonfart(I think) about loyalty in a relationship was written very well.
As for what I DONT need to bother reading:P You name it. I dont care to read the juicy "sex in the city" stories some women care to write nor the "Im hitting that" versions by the few men that might dare. I also dont get into every teenager's lil romance stories or school day frustrations either. Some things I just have to consider younger than me:P
So, I dont have any great answer for ya. But, I keep coming back to you;):P heh.
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Im a MESS on 2008-04-17 03:01:57 |
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Id say what bus hit you so fast, but I understand your feeling--maybe? I have had to take a step back myself upon feeling part of this getting me down. It often reflects badly on my life as well. Take a break. But, no need to say "bye". I dont think I can stand to see one more "Im leaving" or "NO! Dont go! Come on, everybody! We cant let this person go!" post:P
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Rose Colored Glasses on 2008-04-17 02:56:41 |
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Sounds like despite your previous rocky road, this recent event was almost my utopia. So simple, yet so perfect. sigh.
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7 Things I Must do Before I'm 30 (im 22) on 2008-04-17 01:22:23 |
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Pink hair only works on certain people otherwise it looks stupid. Better off getting a wig cuz the color might not sit right. Depends on the nature of the hair.
No matter what anyone else says, do NOT rush into childbirth. Do NOT set a schedule for having kids. That is not how it should work and puts unnecessary pressure on a new relationship. I met a girl once who said she wanted a daughter within 5 years of being with me. Granted, 5 yrs is a chunk of time, but I dont like being put on a schedule:P
Can I go with you to Japan? I want to see most of Asia.
I wont set a time limit on what I can do for charity. Someday I may do something amazing that will turn heads...but I am in no hurry.
#5...can't you do that in small ways more often? You dont have to be Oprah with the Big Give:P
I agree with dragonseal though I have yet to do it myself. Why hop on a cord when you can fly at 10-30,000 feet?:P I have a snowboard I want to do a propeller spin up there with as well...even have the song picked out I want playing..."The Sweetness" by Jimmy Eat World.
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Will you give me back my dime? on 2008-04-16 01:03:30 |
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I am at a loss for words(and wrote a post or two involving the height factor...how tall are you again? Im 5'10)...
But, realize that you havent had a good episode of LOST to report on lately:P Its coming though.
I wish I had the determination/ambition to put in that much effort on applications/resumes...sigh.
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Quandaries of blogging. on 2008-04-15 19:23:58 |
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Well--and take into account my brain and body are not at 100% right now:P--Id say you have yourself quite the lil pickle:P I suppose that's why there are other sites to use:P If I wanted people who know me well to read my stuff, I'd post it where I am better known...like MySpace or Facebook, etc. etc.
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MIddle Class is Bashed on 2008-04-14 22:07:05 |
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Im sure many will either nod or shrug. Put up or shut up, as they say(Im not telling you this, by the way). I nod and then shrug a little:P I just hope the good people survive and get to live out their lives without sacrificing themselves to a higher class. Then again, survival of the fittest, and maybe there are just too many people existing on one planet?
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Quandaries of blogging. on 2008-04-13 23:51:42 |
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Yea, I have not let on about this to anyone I know exactly for the same reason. But, at the same time, Ive never been a person who cared much about what I said of others as long as my own private feelings were preserved:) Now, that doesn't make me a jerk, but it sure allows for less stress in the noggin when I need to vent:P I think if you have to reach out to those you know to get attention to your writing and fear what you write, you are doing yourself a disservice. IOW, dont tell the ones you complain about to read. How stupid is that to say "hey, look at this" and then you look and see some crap that makes you seem like a terrible person?:P It's like walking into a pie or water balloon but more painful maybe.
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These here Elysian Fields seem a lot smaller than on 2008-04-13 23:30:58 |
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It is almost scary to find someone who has a way with words like myself:P But, the food separated on a plate thing...I know someone else with that affliction. I wonder if it is a Virgo Venus thing.
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My List of Musings on 2008-04-13 23:18:28 |
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And, there you are, folks:P The more this picture comes together, the more I find a story:) Keep a separate journal and maybe turn this into a novel/script.
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Chili and Men and Pie, Oh My! on 2008-04-13 23:16:17 |
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Glad to hear you 86'd the meds. It's better to face some things with our own minds--actually, we should be able to face anything in our lives that way. And, whatever we cannot face will do us in anyway. But, let's be strong and fight the good fight to the bitter(or pleasant) end. I'm walking the same path as you in many ways.
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maybe you are paying attention on 2008-04-12 23:27:47 |
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Somehow I am getting this weird Japanese cartoon image of you and this brother of sister's hubby sitting as kids in the van as it tumbles and everyone flies out with some dramatic injury occuring with those Japanese red and white rays of light around them screaming...and then a golden light forms around you two. Years later, you meet the guy you want to be with or who wants to be with you and suddenly you are wisked into the air with that brother of sister's hubby guy and wrapped in the golden light before you two become one in some strange amalgamation:P What time is it?:P
WHo is Dylan? I think I need to learn more about your living situation.
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Is sex necesary on 2008-04-12 18:58:33 |
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I was ready to vomit at first because this sounded like so many posts/chats about people confused after casual sex. And, that is where you are at. I sense a bright light from the heavens shining upon you as if to learn a lesson. It is good you are asking these questions.
I have had similar fears of being where you are. It is a very private/personal matter...but I understand your feelings.
All I can do is wish you luck. And, yes, do be wiser about what you do with your body. Perhaps you can redeem yourself rather than continue the easy habit.
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Indications that u r just a frnd! on 2008-04-12 18:52:08 |
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A rather good first post, miss winston:) Just work on the spelling/typing a bit. But, you make some good points here. I waver on the friend one a bit because many say it is best to be friends first and lovers later.
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If you found $140,000..... on 2008-04-12 18:35:44 |
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Note to self, no ultimatums:P
"You just havent met the right people yet" --UGH!:( :P
You realize your boredom results in brain dullness thus all the uninteresting posts, right?:P
You ought to thank me for bringing readers:P heh.
Shopping does not make me feel better other than getting out of the house...but it only instigates a bad habit.
I dont know what that man was thinking...maybe he did expect more...maybe not. I personally would be a lil scared to take that money home. I even question when I find a 20 or 10 on the ground...maybe someone else who comes along will need it more than me...so let them have it. But, I took the last one I found.
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Oh crappy day...(boy issues too) Please comment!! on 2008-04-11 22:14:57 |
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And, the only reason I focussed onthe bra issue is 1) I didnt really want to get involved between other guys:P and 2)I had a funny thought on the spot.
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Oh crappy day...(boy issues too) Please comment!! on 2008-04-11 22:13:51 |
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Well, I guess I'm out;/....:P Nah, let it be your call:P But, I wont get half a chance anyway.
Wow, you first got the BS thing now? Gee, nothing gets past YOU, QD:P
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Oh crappy day...(boy issues too) Please comment!! on 2008-04-11 01:32:58 |
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Damn you and your big boobs!:P Poor bra:(...:D haha
And, uh, hi, Im Joe:D Well, I see a bit of myself in his reactions anyway:P Yes, it is a complicated snake-like possessive issue mess that could easily cause us to self-destruct when we realize how wrong we are to demand such "exclusivity". SIGH! I think I may be solo for....no, no...gotta think positive...
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Who are you? on 2008-04-10 23:04:25 |
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Btw, 5'8 with dark hair and glasses is awesome:P heh.
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Who are you? on 2008-04-10 23:03:49 |
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Well said, caryandemily!:) Yes, by questioning spirituality, you often are simply at the crossroads. If you choose to take the dark path...well, good luck. If you choose the light--dare you be one of THOSE good people(rolls eyes):)--then you can walk with me maybe:) I just dont want to end up in the dark no matter how tempting it is. But, I am far from "perfect" and ask myself all those very same questions.
Breathe.
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The Internet on 2008-04-10 22:59:37 |
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If I could hug you, I just might:P Baring you are not too creepy once I got to know ya:) Ive read a few things...seen things I like alot and some not so much. You don't look fat to me.
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A first dip in the water on 2008-04-10 22:20:51 |
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Nice to see a young woman who has her words together:) I expect sharp writing from you from now on:P I wish I met more people like you only my age sooner. I dont know if we would relate well. But, I feel every word you type. And, I feel bad that you are tossing in that sea of racism struggling to breathe. How can you go against the dominant public and still understand yourself without alienating everyone? It is near impossible, but not impossible. I am also happy you do not abandon your cultural history. It is too easy for Asians to come to America, learn English, swim with the Cali' fishes and completely shed their heritage. Before long, they have their precious porcelain ears pierced up the whazoo...tattoos and hair some color not found in nature. I consider every Asian woman, young or old, precious til they change everything/throw the past away.
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Drama on 2008-04-10 20:52:44 |
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Caught in the vortex/whirlpool of being a "crab" born an ox year. You are one moody lil...um...cow?(what's a non-offensive word for female ox?:P) I drew a picture of one who has their arms crossed and is very moody on the straight and narrow. Drama is like breathing. You just have to find the iron will in you to harness it all and make the best of life...nothing gets in the ox's way of succeeding.
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Eeyore's Out But I'm In on 2008-04-10 19:52:04 |
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Oh by the way...its been a terrible cold, rainy grey day here as well...and by your dates, Id presume you were a Taurus born a snake year? Tauruses have a propensity to be a bit chubby if not fat because of their love of good food and consuming it:P So, consider yourself somewhere near normal. Some people are just bigger than others.
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Eeyore's Out But I'm In on 2008-04-10 19:47:13 |
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Awe, geez!:P I dont mean to sound mean, but Im glad Im not sitting next to you right now:P I know the sting of being and having a killjoy. But, you are going to school, work and have friends? Actual friends? Friends that are not just posers or users?
Hold your chubby chin up high(how do you manage going to school, work and taking care of a dog if so obese???), because you are doing better than me...someone a tad older than you. Now I feel pathetic:P Im gonna go eat something...
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Scared to death on 2008-04-10 19:42:52 |
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The shy and nervous can often bring out the best in me:) I know the needles and pressures of panic. I know the feeling of sweaty armpits and shakey cold hands. You can either dip your toes in the cold water til you emerse yourself in "I don't know what I am doing; I'm just doing it like everyone else"...dive right in...OR try being creative and less personal first. Once you stimulate interest without the every day "I had a crappy/great day with my family woes" posts(unless you can make such stories witty), you may feel more relaxed and share more of your feelings. It also helps to use the private and "Everyone" settings to allow yourself space to be a lil more secure with yourself before you share something you'd rather not when coming to your senses. Even though many here will just tell you to spill spill spill to feed their need to read:P
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New Earth on 2008-04-10 19:26:59 |
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I didn't read the entire piece...but I can tell you the dialogue seems to flow well--though I was a lil confused as to who was speaking.
You sorta jumble everthing together without breaks and paragraphs. Spelling and grammar could use a lil sharpenning.
As for the eye details...what you describe are the eyes of a frog or cuttlefish. Research both if you haven't. A frog's eyes often slit to the sides(consider Kermit the Frog). A cuttlefish(a sort of modified squid) can have eyes that slit in different directions(if I recall correctly) to deal with light above and below in the water while octopi have eyes that open up to take in light from above and squid eyes open down as they swim in upper waters and look down on the floor(again, if I remember that correctly). So, maybe these guys could be Navy or "sea" dragons?:P
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Slip of the tongue syndrome on 2008-04-10 18:38:12 |
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How pathetic are we as humans if we enjoy flatulence and burping so much?:P Are we the fat hairy vikings gnawing on legs of big animals and guzzling ale from large steins while laughing haughtily with bits of food in our teeth?:P
I agree, Pita, another humorous one here:) Nicely done with all the ... heh:P
I cant picture my grandmother going bar hopping...my family got old faster than most families I see;/ I am hoping to change all that. Forever young!!...you...big sourkrauten troll-faced poopy heads!:P heh.
Yea, luci, what is up with the pic?:P Competing with DS for hotness points?:) Looks like some random late night web cam shot:D
Did I slip?
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Speaking your thoughts... on 2008-04-10 00:50:59 |
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Um, yea..sounds...interesting, support:|
Hey, Taylor Swift, what are you doing here?:P
Sorry, SLash dude:P No keggars for me. I would not be comfortable around loud drunks either.
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Speaking your thoughts... on 2008-04-09 02:28:09 |
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Ha! so there IS a song about teardrops on a guitar!:P I amaze myself without knowing the music.
I dont care for teary songs unless I am writing a drama scene.
I like rocking songs as well...upbeat, energizing.
I was just relating the songs to your talk about interactions with women/relations. And, as for the drinking...notice I said "drinking":P As in, I am not a beer/hard liquor drinker? Maybe a lil (red) wine or champagne on the holiday? Otherwise, I really dont drink.
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Do You Think He Is Tired of Trying? on 2008-04-08 18:57:01 |
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What I need is an Axe body spray experience:P I love those commercials:D
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Do You Think He Is Tired of Trying? on 2008-04-08 18:54:43 |
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Coma, now you have me thinking about those Propell fitness water commercials:P Imagine women raining like "cats and dogs"...every drop that hits the ground splashes up as a woman...and all I can do is groan with frustration for trying to find the courage to make a choice:P
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Do You Think He Is Tired of Trying? on 2008-04-07 22:53:57 |
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Oh, almost forgot again...so which one does that make me? Anthony Michael Hall or the other guy(how sad I don't recall his name:D)?:P
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Do You Think He Is Tired of Trying? on 2008-04-07 22:52:25 |
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BlueMoon, no one said I DONT look at their boobs:P I just usually don't make an effort lest I be accused of staring:) Waist up, I always say, is what I notice for the most part. I usually don't take/have the time to study the shoes:P Unless they are standing still and I am off at a distance.
Thanks, southernsun:P
Slash, what have you been drinking and/or smoking?:P I just saw that movie--or the terrible remake/sequel/TV series--at Best Buy. I had such a huge crush on Kelly LeBrock back then:P I dunno, man. Nuclear weapons are dangerous:P But, thanks for the compliment:P
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I'm like a trash can holding all the information on 2008-04-07 22:28:42 |
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YES! I am working on a story myself and finding the same words coming out in different cases. The scenarios may play out alike, but why do I keep reusing the same words? It is a grade school groove I used to fall into. My teacher would always tell me to diversify. Never use the same word two sentences in a row.
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Can You Help Me Out? on 2008-04-07 22:00:38 |
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:O gasp...Gee, stick, you really DON'T know anything, do ya?:P jk
Red, I just think it is all fabulous!:D You couldn't write a better piece of fiction! It's absolutely wonderful:)...
And now, the truth:P(since that was all for show)...
My english teachers always told me never to use a WAS, IS, ARE, etc. in the first sentence(though I don't think you should be crucified if you do). Try to use more action verbs. How about:
"On such a deathly quiet night, even the jungle itself knew something was coming. Neither shrub nor tree dared to move. It was the calm before the storm."
I laugh at "She had interferred with his plans for the last time":D So cliche:P
I must say, despite agreeing with stickman about changing/deleting a few words to make it sharper, your grammar/writing skills are far better than most I find here. Of course, your mind is still fresh in school mode, I imagine:P
While this is all set up well, the "villain" sounds weak to me like a bad Power Rangers character. Why would something so bent on revenge need mindless minions to hunt down an ordinary woman(unless she is NOT so ordinary?)? That just seems to be a waste of time:P
He is sensitive to water but can freeze it? That seems a bit odd as well. If sensitive, why not make it so he could simply breath upon the water like the big bad wolf and freeze it that way? Or toss/stab something into the water to make it freeze. But, if he sent minions already....again, waste of time.
With little time between the time she crossed and his superhuman speed made up for it...he should have caught up to her in wet clothes. I am confused by the bodies on the ground.
I don't mind the "dramatics" at all...it really adds to the vampire/werewolf of the night mystique. Add a lil fog rolling maybe or a wolf howl in the distance.
How could you have just started this--which I assume is a book?--a little while ago and have it all worked out? Amazing. You are already sounding like the Harry Potter author:P
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Honor, Courage, and Other Such Virtues on 2008-04-06 21:57:50 |
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Oh! Dare I go for 3:P Seeing as you watched it and apparently saw virtue in it...which character/type would you most associate with? I seemed to favor Gandalf the wizard(though knowing the actor who played him is gay turns me off the idea lest someone think that of me:P).
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Honor, Courage, and Other Such Virtues on 2008-04-06 21:54:16 |
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Oh, I keep forgetting the other part of what I want to say:P Some women are beyond age old chivalry and do not want to be bothered with the tedium of men holding doors or pulling out chairs. I suspect many would think the man is after something or expecting when a man does such a favor--which back in the day might have been no big thing. Just a thought.
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Honor, Courage, and Other Such Virtues on 2008-04-06 21:52:02 |
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Hey, dont go. I hate goodbyes:P
I am refreshed by your words, mlady:) I humbly and completely agree:)
Perhaps WE can make a positive difference. I have a similar issue with people who can't say "excuse me" or control their kids when shopping. I want to make a post about it too:P
So, welcome...back?(1 post in December and just now?) and thanks:)
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Just when I thought it was safe .... on 2008-04-06 17:29:20 |
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Ladies, if you categorize all men like that, us more sensitive chaps won't have a dilly of a chance:P[Sorry, British film sideeffects still kicking in:)]
I rethought this and my comment from before. I can understand the dislike of the poorly timed calls but don't necessarily call him names. Maybe he feels more at ease/confident at night on the phone? Granted, it was still a bit rude/inconsiderate unless he anticipated you being out clubbing at that hour anyway? Think about it. If he called in the morning, you could be at a job or something. Didn't want to call you at work.]
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Speaking your thoughts... on 2008-04-06 17:19:27 |
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Oh, yea, forgot one...these popped in my head on my walk today..."Do You Think You're Better Off Alone?" by Alice Deejay
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Speaking your thoughts... on 2008-04-06 17:18:05 |
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Or if you get cold feet like me...you can drown your sorrows in songs like:
"I Don't Wanna Be In Love" by Good Charlotte
"What Is Love?" by Haddaway
"Complicated" by Avril Levigne
"Love Song" by Sara Bareilles
If you need a "drinking" buddy, I'm here:P
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"Come On and Knock it where it's Rocking Non-stop" on 2008-04-06 16:35:01 |
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[Holds up his 80s boombox over his head.]
What I am hearing:
"I Don't Wanna Be In Love"
by Good Charlotte
"Love Song" by Sara Bareilles
"Complicated" by Avril Levigne
"What Is Love?" by Haddaway
"Do You Think You're Better Off Alone"
by Alice Deejay
[Puts his arms down, puts his sunglasses on, turns and walks away.]
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Stripper names on 2008-04-06 02:23:47 |
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You named your first pet Savage? Whatever:P Liar.
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Speaking your thoughts... on 2008-04-06 02:17:36 |
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Oh I forgot...the image of the PC/journal as a she:P...I saw a pink computer with stickers and yellow yarn braids on it:P I dunno why:) One step further? A candlelight dinner of spaghetti and wine with conversation...you leaning on one hand as you laugh and chatter the night away:P Tickling her ivories:D
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Speaking your thoughts... on 2008-04-06 02:15:38 |
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Way to win the cyberladies over:P
angel's pic shows her moving so fast that she is literally flying backward up top:P She is roadrunner fast to be first:P heh.
You had me initially getting another bit of imagery, Slash, with this. I saw this guy looking nervous in a white bath towel stepping into the shallow end of a cold pool...gradually taking the towel off and stepping further in though the cold is intense...and then you typing at the keyboard like a musical keyboard slowly putting the notes together til you are a pro...and then turning words into weapons made me think of words leaping off the screen into asian weapon shapes like in the ads for the new Jet Li/Jackie Chan movie....
After that, it became wordswordswordswords....wordswordswords.... Just started to run on a bit.
That's about all the new stuff I can say:P The ladies covered the rest. Sounds like yer on my page to some extent regarding the ability to speak face to face.
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Just when I thought it was safe .... on 2008-04-06 01:52:48 |
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Why is everyone looking at this from the kissup angle? Why is the guy the bad guy? She got his number but wouldnt give out hers. Then she goes through all her excuses before TEXTING him--UGH--not calling and having a nice two way chat...a friggin text message. It is as pathetic as me trading emails. I put the blame on both sides. End of story. Stop thinking you have to treat the women who write this stuff like princesses. Sorry, EasytoSay, but I have to admit it. I think women who talk about this stuff seem to get the AWWW reaction more than a fully honest and realistic answer.
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Stripper names on 2008-04-05 18:12:11 |
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Hmm, George Melvina...does nothing for me:P
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Who owns the North Pole? on 2008-04-05 17:59:24 |
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It's all about "Hey, what does HE see in that? What are they fighting over over there? I want a piece of that too! It's mine; it's mine! I called it first!" (or something like the land-claiming scene in Far and Away)
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Homer Simpson on 2008-04-05 17:36:27 |
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Never heard a few of those:P
And, I think I speak for at least a few human beings(ironically working on a post about this as I write this:P) when I say humanity should NOT accept being silly and ignorant.
But, since I am here, I'd like to add one of MY favorites:P
Mr. Plow Homer, "Our forecast calls for flurries of passion with extended periods of 'getting it awhn'." :D
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when i think back on 2008-04-05 15:45:45 |
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Tony, that is some terrible stuff to say!:P First of all, beating an addiction is as easy as saying "I will."
Second, that is terrible if talking to the ones who are supposed to be your friends ditch you as soon as you have a low tide depression moment. That is exactly what I am afraid of when it comes to connecting with anyone. I dont want my ways to turn people away when it matters most.
Talking about the heavy stuff with some random stranger--like in passing on here--is about as pathetic as it comes. I see my manic coworker--who is torn between the effects of smoking heavily and popping pills to keep some sort of balance--trying to convey to complete strangers how she feels and what she is going through. And, they all look at her and "oh" and "ah" and nod and say "I totally understand, yes". And, she feels a slight good feeling from that when you can clearly tell they just wanted to get away from her before she explodes on them. It's pathetic!! And, tragic.
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yoplait, Target, and some other stuff.... on 2008-04-05 01:35:09 |
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"It wasn't the money, it was the principle of the thing. Or something.
Ok fine, I was pissy cause of hormonal issues"
--HAHA!:D...oooh, you women:P heh.
I have not seen too many cute managers:P But, a few clerks for sure:) Some mighty fine and some might ugly people in red at Tarjay:P
I am not a Cristian fan either only cuz he always looks scared...and when he gets all worked up, he looks like Ahnold:P You know...da teuhmenaytowh. Hasta la vista, BABY!B-)
Priscilla and Louie rocked the Tango. Sorry, but she and her plastique face have to stick around a little longer. I feel Louie always dances to weird music...but he fairs better than Jonathan and is looooovely wife Anna:) She's dreamy:D
Hey, look, QD! You got another comment maker!:P
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Boys don't cry... on 2008-04-05 01:27:27 |
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Ill be expecting a call from you then?:P;) Oh, Im full of visions:P
I have a few guitars yet have not taken the innitiative to learn how to play...someday:P
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Vulnerability on 2008-04-05 01:24:56 |
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You would? But, the new pope looks too much like Emperor Palpatine from Star Wars when his face started to sink in:P Kinda scary.
Sorry for what?:P You didnt do anything:D But, yes, it hurts badly.
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Soulmate ?!?!?!? on 2008-04-05 01:17:22 |
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This should get posted or tagged somewhere as the #1 topic here. I have seen more people write SOULMATE posts than anythying else except maybe how they got screwed in some relationship or are having sexual afterthoughts that wont go away like a vampire's craving.
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What family time? on 2008-04-04 23:51:14 |
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TELL me about it;/ The last time my family was able to sit together and watch something as a family...hmm, can't remember. Since we started renting movies, we have almost always disagreed. The odds of picking one we all like/d...rare. Hmm, maybe you should try something other than a movie?:P What about a craft session? My family always did pretty good with construction paper days. On holidays, we would make cutouts and draw on them(like making corn cobs) for different days to tape to the front picture window. I think I will continue this tradition sometime in the future.
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THE "KISS" ! on 2008-04-04 23:35:16 |
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Hey, a nice change of pace for you:P
Guess you had a lil brainstorm or lightbulb of yer own:)
I would have turned red and buttoned my lip til the pressure overwhelmed me too.
I don't have an answer to the question even if I think about it.
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I'm only female ... after all on 2008-04-04 23:18:54 |
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Oh yea, forgot to mention the walking contradiction part:P Got that too....easy to say finding it not so easy to say anything good:P No worries. But, yea, why doesn't your ID work better for you?:P What might be blocking your mind? Or maybe you just need to get some exercise/air in your lungs/brain.
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I'm only female ... after all on 2008-04-04 23:17:15 |
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I was lost til I saw the C Ramp:P Doh. Which reminds me, Simpsons are on:P
Well, rather than repeating myself on the matters of PMS, all I can say is as for the "I have nothing worth writing that will inspire or entertain"...it either comes or it doesn't. Even I, the brainstormer, cannot be a winner EVERY time:P I am not a gold factory. Sometimes you just have to fart out some crap or pop an emotional zit even if it releases a little "venom" into the stream of things. When the lightning strikes, strike while the iron is hot. Til then, who cares?:P Like the other one said, chill. Get in touch with hobbies.
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Sounding OFF!!!!!!! Is The virtual Jerry Springer on 2008-04-04 23:01:37 |
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Funny you should mention getting it started:P If the thread in the Help section "Should I start this thread?" (or something like that) is still open, go take a look;)
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life goes on slowly on 2008-04-04 19:57:48 |
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It feels strange I suppose for a male stranger to cry at something like this...but I feel like crying. I fear this situation as a potential future I have not even attempted to face. I can imagine how it feels...and I see you used most of the cliche post-breakup thoughts:P Like any really painful "wound", you are in denial of any healing or improvement. When in fact, it seems the human spirit makes one or two choices with every disappointment/failure...one being to either go down with it or rise above. And, the fork in the road may not appear as soon as you think. You think you are going down the "Im screwed" road...but maybe you haven't reached that yet. I have to keep this in mind myself. But, seriously, I feel like crying...even though you are just one of millions.
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Sounding OFF!!!!!!! Is The virtual Jerry Springer on 2008-04-04 19:50:29 |
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Oh, and you might get a better response to this if you add a few more tags other than "observation" or change the title a bit. I wasn't sure what you were getting at but took a chance.
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Sounding OFF!!!!!!! Is The virtual Jerry Springer on 2008-04-04 19:48:59 |
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Funny you should mention that horrific excuse for a talk show. I just made a forum post about starting an open arena to air out frustrations, ask questions of any sort...group discussion, etc...without fear of where it might go. I know fighting isn't necessarily a good thing...but if someone feels irked by another, I want them to feel free to let off the steam without worrying about everyone else who is seeking peace/therapy to get trampled in the way. So, I thought I might vent some of that tension into such an open forum. Whatchya think?
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Stripper names on 2008-04-04 19:43:30 |
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Pita, you've done it again:P Well, actually Luci made me laugh just as much and you are not the first to discuss stripper names:P
Luci, when you said "something to fall on"...I didnt know how to laugh:P Something to fall on? I thought you discussed that in Pita's boobtacular post:P heh. So, maybe you could have something to fall back AND forward on:P
What's with all the thunder and lightning names?:P Im personally minutely offended.
Im trying to think of a name if I ever stooped so low:P I have been called many names in my short years. Few good ones. I may get back to you on this:P For now, maybe call me Tiger Jones:P
I wish I could have that much fun with someone and the phone/paging system:P
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when i think back on 2008-04-04 19:29:22 |
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I feel/sense similar feelings in myself. I am not sure what to say except...TURN OFF THE SAD MUSIC!:p I rarely allow myself to listen to any song that inspires sadness or bad memories. I insist on only music that pumps me up, gives me energy or even just gets me mad enough to do SOMETHING. But, even then, it may only inspire me to be creative and daydream when I dont have the time in this hectic modern dog-eat-dog world.
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Big Picture vs Attention to Detail on 2008-04-04 19:21:39 |
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I should also mention that I would probably side with you on the lunch matter. Id be less likely to make a stink in a loud way and just sneak out to get lunch if that was how I felt. I, despite some people's opinions, do not like to be a complainer or fight starter nor do I go out of my way to make people feel bad unless they made ME feel bad or angry.
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Big Picture vs Attention to Detail on 2008-04-04 19:19:49 |
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THanks for openning my eyes to the OPEN or BIG PICTURE side from your POV. It pains me to say that I can be a mix of both. I WOULD be the one to get upset over the shirt as you said because it probably WAS an important shirt at a bad time. I wish it were easier to look past these things...but circumstances often just SUCK! Oh well.
But, good effort.
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Do I Have A Foot Fetish? on 2008-04-04 18:22:13 |
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Foxx, I still think--and I dont give a fook what you think!:P heh.--that the word sexy has a tendency to inspire some sort of sexual influence. You can't have sexy without sex:P badumching.
"i think just about everyone despises the thought of foot binding; i was just making a point about how the female foot/shoe has long been a sex symbol."
--that did nothing for the argument:P There is still nothing sexy about binding feet in such a torturous way.
That's like saying those Saw movies are hot:P BLEH!:(
Well, I know I'm partially empathic, but I am not sure about that memory factor...cripes, that would be creepy:P Gee, just what I need...picking up on sex scenes in my brain that I am not a part of;/
I dont even like to watch in movies!:P
Oh, I know my imagination runs wild...it was on fire today giving people tons of ideas at work...like a popcorn popper...it only stopped when my brain "melted" under strain/overload.
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Do I Have A Foot Fetish? on 2008-04-04 18:16:21 |
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"OH MY...I'm not touching this one!!!
I'm scared to. hee-hee! You just stumped my brain with both those questions. Can't we just talk about puppies????"
...Um...I'm not touching that one either:P Heh. Get it?:P
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Miscommunication from the island on 2008-04-04 18:10:51 |
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--storm break--
Foxx, I have been wavering in what to think of you since I first peeked in on a post of yours months ago:P But, your words here seemed to do more to clear the storm than anyone else.
When you said "sux a$$", all I could picture was that ventriloquist who has that old man puppet saying it.
I will say that I don't think it is right for me or anyone to assume something without some prior knowledge. It is easy to let off steam--especially when something misunderstood sets off a 'tude--but that does not mean it is always just to share that half-witted opinion. I am not perfect by any means. And, I am not always going to be 100% right.
I hope what I said to you was NOT too harsh or out of line. I just felt the need to say it because that is how your explanation made me FEEL. It may not be fully justified, but emotionally it was to me.
And, to an extent you are right about all those who seek cushion from "brutal honesty" or milk and honey. But, I cant be sure all cases go the same way. There may be cases when the person who is simply sensitive runs and cries from an unjustified assault/offense. Those cases do not apply to the "can't handle the truth" idea nor is it completely right to be the "barker" brow-beating them with a barrage of coarse words.
Im glad you enjoyed the imagery of the bubbles and the knuckle cracking:P heh.
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10 THINGS TO DO BEFORE YOU DIE on 2008-04-03 20:54:55 |
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Is this your personal list? Im trying to think of something to say in Juno/Cody lingo, but I can't:P
Here is how I feel about these entries...
10--ok, that could be feasible.
9--not necessarily on my list of places, but why not.
8--Im not much of a "staying on the streets in the cold from noon til midnight just waiting for the loud crowd to form around me just to see some light-up ball come down and ppl kiss" person(and if I had no one to kiss but some random stranger who might me drunk?...Id be so sad:P).
7--SPARE ME! She is hardly the end all be all celeb to meet! I could give a big crap:P
6--crazy Tom? Again, not crucial. I'd rather work on a Scorcese film or maybe Steve Jackson(LOTR).
5--personally could care less and feel like vomitting:P I guess it's just the girl wanting the guy...I can think of a few female singers Id like to share a stage with:P and off stage:D
4--ummm...daring:P very...very daring...probably would get arrested...
3--SKYdive naked? Whoa. I dont think anyone wants what would come out of you from the feeling on their windshields:P Keep the clothes on, okay?:P (whats with the naked focus?:P)
2--Falling is easy...knowing love from lust/infatuation and finding a love that is destined to last is another story.
1--More than likely, neither you or me will achieve this...but figuring out how to avoid/prevent getting it is possible;) Expose the truths the gov. won't.
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Activity points!! on 2008-04-03 20:34:22 |
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Dude, stop stealing my material!:P heh. I said that to her on her very first post.
And, if you click on that "activity points" help link thing, it tells you what qualifies as a star earner. There is also a post about it in the forums under the Help section(or maybe the first section about updates?). Basically, theres: blog-star, post/upload a pic-star, upload a podcast-star...and I currently forget the other two but thought one was starting a thread in the forums(but I did that and still am at 2 stars:P).
Is this really a 5-star post, Miss Page?:P Don't be so impatient. It shows your age:)
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Do I Have A Foot Fetish? on 2008-04-03 18:05:19 |
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I was also going to mention...why do women's shoes have to be SEXY? I think there are shoes out there that do just as much good being PRETTY and making women look BEAUTIFUL or NICE. Everything does not have to be SEXY. There is a limit to that before it just gets to be like a pizza piled up with cheese til your heart stops after one slice.
Now, foxxie, you admit it:P And, after that talk about my other comment:P Thanks for the porn explanation:P I wouldn't really know since my video exposure has been quite limited and I never go to such a depraved shop. But, thanks for the education:P Tell me, where can I find the...heh!:P
Also, I never thought about the leg muscles being accentuated by the raised heel. Interesting.
I despise the thought of foot binding. I am not into inflicting pain.
A deeper explanation that might make you look crazy? Hey, as long as it doesn't make ME look crazy, spill it:P
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pretty day... on 2008-04-03 00:39:43 |
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Pats you on the back...there, there...heh:P Face it, you need me:)
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Do I Have A Foot Fetish? on 2008-04-03 00:15:29 |
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Sorry to hear about your legs/feet, Gwat. That is the very reason I focus on shoes that are sensible as well as sexy. Some heels are "just for show". Maybe good for photo ops and the like but not daily walking.
Gee, thanks for bursting the bubble on the birthing matter;/:P Kinda stole my thunder there. But, it won't change my fantasy-generating mind, nope:>:P
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Supporting Hillary on 2008-04-02 02:28:01 |
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I am hardly one for politics. I just noticed your profile pic and took interest. I take it you are a major right-wing or whatever democrat? You wave your little blue foam stick and wear your donkey tshirt? I dont support one party like that. I think the party system has only divided this country and even the parties themselves. All the bickering and mudslinging crap. I dont judge a candidate by how they handle the "issues" because any promises they make may not be fulfilled or kept. I go by character. After reading this, I dont feel good about ANY candidate. I thought Huckabee was best for the Rep. and Obama seemed safer as a step towards change(a black man in office) for the Dem. Those two would make a great showdown. I have no faith in McCain(too old) and Hillary scares me a bit. I suspect sexist wars would ensue with her.
Did you draw that profile pic yourself, miss heather? What about your pic, MISSdavina?
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Do I Have A Foot Fetish? on 2008-04-02 01:51:35 |
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peace_seeker, isn't that the same thing I said about mothers/kids?:P And, I don't think that is the point about the shoe thing, either. Sexy is often relative to the whole "eye of the beholder" thing and personal taste. I'd notice a woman's outfit before I notice her shoes. So, the outfit must say more about her than the shoes. It's just when I am looking at the shoes, I picture outfits and the women in them...like I said.
heatherslife, you just might have good taste:P Heh. I've seen that site already for costume ideas. But, not everything there is in good taste. Some is a bit skimpy and sleazy, if I recall my last visit correctly.
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yoplait, Target, and some other stuff.... on 2008-04-02 01:17:09 |
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Yea, I can tell you are really hurt by "the Gute" as the fans were calling him:P going home:D
MM, chocolate yogurt:P
You seem to fail to realize how much we have in common:P heh.
Hey, my home away from home. Tarjhay! I suspect you checked out right around the shift change(part-timers) or a (lunch) break and that the said item ended up in a credit bin once the cashier realized it sitting on her counter(whether or not she knew it was yours). They just keep moving there. Its nice they replaced the item at least. No need to get all worked up unless it was something pricey. Ive had that happen to me before...or I love when I dont pay attention to the price only to have to go back and fix it later.
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Boys don't cry... on 2008-04-01 22:29:04 |
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angelwings, must you always be first?:P
Dude, this came close to poetry as well...and a few days before I posted a poem of sorts of my own! Is that how you found mine?
I can picture this in a music video--very latin. Picture this.
You start out sitting on the edge of your bed in a dim white light...only the top of your head and bits of your arms draped over your guitar and legs can be seen...then you put your head in your hands for a moment while holding the guitar against your lap...the light gets brighter and turns blue...you take hold of the guitar and wait...the tears(simulated) strike the strings of the guitar like raindrops(sparce at first...then in rhythmic patterns)...pause...rain starts to fall(again simulated) around you both in light and sound...you begin to play a very powerful, emotional piece...and as you finish, your fingers become slower til you are striking notes as slow as the tears began to fall...drift into silence as the rain continues to fall around you...and we end with the puddle under your feet in the spotlight.
Huh?! HUH?!:P Pretty good, ay?!(weak French-Canadian Celine Dion impression)
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Vulnerability on 2008-04-01 22:16:59 |
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Hey, you almost turned this into poetry yourself, Mr Vatican Phony:P
A lil rough around the cave edges...but not bad. I had a similar experience at 14. And, it still hurts to think about it. She was--is--an amazing person who maybe was not as tuned in as your female friend(it's a bit hard to remember the exact emotional details that far back) but lit a fire under me that would often make me feel daring enough to do almost anything. I miss that. But, I was not exactly at my best at the time. The vortex I found myself spinning into took me away from everyone else and directed my every thought inward.
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Hello and Welcome on 2008-04-01 01:14:56 |
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Give it a crack, oh mighty film scholar:P And, if you like, you can check out my reviews and see how they compare. Care to be the Ebert to my Siskel/Roepert?:P
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