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Seemingly Estranged Feelings

Upon recent analysis it has become apparent that said feeling of “being alone” is common amongst others. Though said feeling may seem unique to the individual, leaving blame to self and/or situations, is in fact very common amongst the common individual. The common individual may appear happy & to an extent supplied in the sense of companionship & comradery; however said individual is usually not appeased & feels the same as many other individuals.
The less-than-superb individual seems to share this feeling of aloneness & indeed feels unique however said feeling is common amongst practically all individuals. Yet each & every one, individual feels similarly.
This to a certain respect can even explain that individual who seems to have “it all” yet is still unhappy & finds their self in an ongoing despair in terms of existence & progress regarding said situation.
Ultimately in regards to the situation; for those who have said feeling of despair & aloneness, it is common to think that said feeling is unique however it is not & regardless of individual; it is in fact universal.
What separates the overall (in many respects) successful individuals from the average individuals? It is in that the average individual to a certain respect accepts said feeling. The above-average individual finds this feeling above-average as (said individual) is; making said feeling even more overwhelming. What separates the above average & the average is that the average individual can accept said feeling as average. To a certain respect this is what makes the average individual better adjusted than the above-average individual; as for said above-average individual finds said feeling above-average.
The perception of above-mentioned feeling is what separates the adjusted from the well-adjusted individuals. Hence the average are better adapted then the above-average; as the average can accept the loneliness that is reality when the above-average find said reality unique to the individual which leads to a unique way of perceiving said reality.
Realistically said feeling is indeed more popular than perceived. Perceived not only by the average individual but the above-average individual as well. What separates said individuals is a certain quality of life. Certain individuals in particular tend to accept said feeling as “special” when the “average” find said feeling as normal & treat it as such.
This may explain why the “above-average” are in fact not as well adjusted as the “average’.