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An introduction

My name is Kathy and I am a 35 year old with a son who turns 7 this fall. I decided to start a blog as a place to lay down my thoughts since I have been b

Key signs of an abusive relationship

  Possessiveness: Checking on you all the time to see where you are, what you're doing and who you're with. Trying to control where you go and who you can see and getting angry if you don't do wha

Just starting out...

So this is my first online blog. I'm not too sure how to begin so I will start with myself. I am 21 years old. I am in my second year of nursing school and am loving it. I play rep field hockey, volleyball and soccer. Growing up I was a very hyper kid.

My life as a porn addict

In this post I'm going to talk more about my sexual obsessive compulsiveness. All of this might sound crazy or whatever but keep in mind that I have OCD and Asperger's Syndrome. I just thought I'd get this off my chest so people can see what it's like t

Why we find it hard to say "No"

  To learn to say “No”, we have to first understand what’s resisting us about it. Below are common reasons why people find it hard to say no:

current affairs

i don't think i mentioned it but my novel is called Negative One and keep reading it people i will update it soon i promise you will like it as of now i have to go to bed becasue it's midnight here LOL beautiful people! i keep seeinmg cats everywhere i

dunno... just rambling

It poured this morning which limited my options as to what on the honey do list I could address. I gtot somethings done but not as much as I'd hoped. Seems I've got one of those operator buttons on my butt. Every time I sit down I fall asleep. Literally

Dear Santa,

  All i want for Christmas this year is to be able to post pictures on Thoughts. Is that too much to ask?  


why did you have to leave us to go to london? why couldn't you stay with us and stay forever? why did you leave in the first place? when you left everyone was suddenly depressed. all i ask is that you come back and make us happy again. please do it for

A time to reflect

September 11th was among us once again. Each year at this time I sit back and reflect. I reflect on my life, situations and people around me and of course, the subject of love. As a dating/relationships writer I can tell you something: I


When you're in a relationship do you still have your own identity? Or does your significant other take control of that? Some people it seems that they do. I was talking to a friend of mine from this site, she no longer blogs here and hasn't in years, an

10 thing's no one can steal from you.

Of all the things that can be stolen from you – your possessions, your youth, your health, your words, your rights – what no one can ever take from you is… Your uniqueness. – You are unrepeatable.

what if ...

  What if...    Those two words are always running around in my brain and I constantly wonder about many things like what if my past was different or what if I was richer or wh

WORSHIP - Jim Colyer song

I think about you all the time You're stamped on my brain I drink you like Chateau Margaux wine You're the reason I'm sane I go to sleep thinking about you And you're in all of my dreams I wake up thinking about you

Building myself up, the beginning of my journey alone

So I've been sick with a cold this whole weekend and it's tuesday and i feel like my cold has gotten better and I have more energy but my chest was very tight and had difficulty breathing. So, I went to the doctor and they diagnosed me with pneumonia af

Timing is everything

WARNING:This post is slightly gross and should not be read while eatting Was not feeling well yesterday so I took the day off to relax and get a few small things done around the house.  It was one of those stomach/headache/lethargy things I

The Ticket You lost!!!

If you had a winning lottery ticket that you knew would make your future exclusive, would you throw it away time and time again!?   I think not...It's like you know you won but you mess with the ticket over and over again, touching