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This weekend was pretty decent for me. My mother took the kids Saturday night and Ben and I stayed up all night watching movies. Not terribly exciting but at least we had some time alone together. That doesn't happen too often. At least not anymore. We need something......................... something to spice things up between us. It doesn't even necessarily have to be something sexual, I'm just tired of the same old routine. I have the kids all day, he comes home, we eat dinner, he plays with the girls while i take a minute to breath, we watch a cartoon with the girls then get them ready for bed. Then he takes a shower, we watch a movie or he goes to bed. That is our nightly routine during the week. I'm tired of it. I mean its okay but its the same damn thing every night! I want something exciting, I want him to look at me like he can't get enough of me, I want to feel those first in love butterflies again. I feel as if though we are a 70 year old couple who has been together for years and years when in fact we have only been together for three. I mean technically we are still considered newly weds. It sure didnt' take long for the newly wed feeling to go away though.
We have come through SO much though, sometimes i wonder how it is that we are even still together with everything that has happened. Neither one wants to give up which is good because things are going really well now, i'm just bored out of my mind. Maybe its my own depression just eating away at me, I don't feel sexy or pretty enough. For god sakes I have put on 75 pounds what woman would feel sexy after that. Maybe he isn't interested because i don't have that confidence anymore? Don't get me wrong we are still intimate together and when we are its amazing, it just doesn't happen often. Does that mean something or am I looking to far into it. Am I purposely trying to feed into my own insecurities and not even realising it? I think I just need to stop worrying about all of that, find a way to get myself motivated and lose this freaking weight. I just want to be sexy again.
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Posted by bloggermom24 on 2007-08-20 08:24:39 | Rating: | Views: 164
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You may find that if you just eliminate grains from your diet, your pounds will come off. Avoid anykind of bread, pasta, rice, cereals. Once in awhile is okay. You will get your carbs and fiber from low glycemic fruit (melon, papaya, mango, berries, sour apple) and vegetables.
Barry Groves second opinion - has some wonderful information about good nutrition and diet that you will find beneficial to losing weight without dieting and starving yourself. Google Barry Groves Second Opinion
L-carnetine, CLA (Tonalin are natural energy burners and will facilitate fat burn. There is a product out called Lean Results that does a host of things. It regulates blood sugar, and signals to your hypothalmus to burn off stored fat for energy. Google Lean Results, L-carnetine, CLA (tonalin) if you wish to learn more about fat/energy burn.
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Posted by Jesusmyvision
on 2007-08-20 08:42:52
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Oops. I misspelled L-carnitine. It is spelled correctly here in this post.
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Posted by Jesusmyvision
on 2007-08-20 08:44:36
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You can feel sexy without losing the weight. I know I am not the same weight as when I married. But I still feel sexy. It's from within. Change up the routine ... when he goes to bed early -- go with him. Or when he goes to get his shower - get in and wash his back. Be the initiator. Get a sexy nightie to wear. Give him a sexy massage ... candles. You say you have the good sex when you have it .. maybe you should have it more often?
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Posted by Mollyreal06
on 2007-08-20 11:45:42
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If the sex is good, have more of it. 60 minutes of sex can burn 300+ calories.
If your daily routine is stale, change it. Do something different, anything, as long as it isn't the same old same old. Try 1 or 2 nites a week. It will shake things up.
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Posted by freehal04
on 2007-08-20 16:31:30
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