Foty called to say good night to Miss 8, which was a nice change since he hadn't done so for a couple of days.  Not all his fault, Miss 8 had a sl eepover at her Nana's (My mums) and there... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-07-03 06:50:28
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Warning : Easy's gone mad and can't stop putting music in her blogs! lol I promise I'll grow out of this phase, my soul is just needing a little harmony to smile lately, but I... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-24 09:47:22
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I get a phone call tonight from the soon to be ex-mother-in-law. She invited me and the kids up to visit her this week-end, in particular Sunday. Checking my diary I decline the invite, I... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-16 03:50:11
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As I sit and think about turning on the work laptop, I reflect over my week-end that was. My Saturday was pretty uneventful this week, I guess going to see Sex and the City last week was a... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-15 07:35:02
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My Intention here is not to offend any of my good friends on Thoughts, nor to alienate you with my swearing.  It is just raw writing, with a bit of swearing.... So please if you are easily... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-08 19:44:15
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Firstly let me say at the moment my week-ends are less than exciting.... without being able to talk to Geoff in any shape or form I find myself a little sad/lonely and a lot frustrated. ... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-07 03:58:04
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Thought I'd delve right back into the early early days with foty, with something that I always remember.  It is almost the first hiccup in our long relationship. But in hindsight I regard... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-06 09:30:16
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Foty arrives sometime after 6:30pm looking a bit disshevelled.  He's got a new gold chain around his neck  and his hair is combed to one side, he looks like a school boy in his Dad's... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-03 09:22:44
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So Tuesday 3rd June 2008 ... 9:15am ... the big Court date and time ... been and gone for me. I have to say I'm still left wondering.  I'm in limbo, and don't really feel anything... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-03 08:52:21
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It wasn't until after he'd moved back in that I noticed he wasn't wearing his wedding band.  He knew I was very particular about that.  He often removed it for his football matches,... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-02 05:10:52
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After driving home for 2 hours in silence we both collapse into bed.  The next morning we wake for work as usual, with foty taking Master 3 to my parents on his way to work. I take Miss 8 to... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-01 08:43:18
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Foty's Grandmother passed away after several years of being unwell.  She was an amazing lady who I thought the world of.  She was very sensible, kind, widely read and often shared her... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-06-01 07:53:05
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You may recall that Master 5 had a birthday party to go to on Saturday at 2:30pm.  Being that it was his best (little) friend from Kinder there was no way I was going to blow it off f or... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-31 20:46:07
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I woke up scared and apprehensive about 4am this morning. I had just had a bad dream. Disorientated and half asleep, it took me a few minutes to realise that it was just a dream. I... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-29 02:56:15
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Tonight I am just about to say good night to Miss 8 and Master 5 who are in bed when the phone rings ... who could it be...... Miss 8 dives on the phone and it is foty !!!   It is... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-28 06:43:25
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Today I was discussing my pending divorce hearing, which is on 3rd June 2008. I have been advised that I do not need to attend, and the whole process will take about 5 minutes.... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-22 05:02:43
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Tonight while we waited for Miss 8 to get home from Dancing foty rings me on my mobile. Normally he calls on the home phone, and with caller ID I can chose to let it go to message bank or... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-21 08:52:09
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Miss 8 is still upset with her Dad, so I decide I have to call him tonight.  Otherwise she is NOT going to sleep. So I ask her again what happened. It goes like this .. Foty puts the... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-20 07:38:45
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It's Tuesday and my friends you all know what that means don't you! Yes it's foty time.  He arrives somewhere after 6:30pm. I quickly usher them all down the other end of the house so... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-20 06:30:29
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We almost, I say almost had a complete foty free week-end. As you may recall he chose to go away on a GOLF week-end instead of spending time with his children on Saturday. Now he... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-18 09:49:25
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Tonight on the phone foty has suggested to Miss 8 that she have a sleep over at his house next Friday... not this week (cause he's going to play Golf instead).  But the next... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-15 07:11:07
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Came home late today with my munchkins.  Miss 8 had dancing, Master 5 was playing at a friends and I got a new "hair doo".  It was dark when I put my hand inside the... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-14 07:31:22
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I'm sure most of my family/friends here on thoughts would have expected FOTY to take GOLF over his kids .... and well for those of you silly enough to put money the other way ... guess what you... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-13 07:20:36
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Yes you read it right - Mothers Day 2008 - Part 2 ... where is part 1 you might ask??  Well Part 1 is the good Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-11 05:09:04
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I've tried so hard today not to blog about him... I've been sitting on my hands in between dog, cat and ebola co-worker who lost his sneeze... but I have to, it's bugging me!!!  So bear... Read More
Posted by: EasyToSay on 2008-05-09 09:29:19
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