Thank you for all of those who've spoken kinds words, I needed that support ... and for those who left judgemental comments... Kiss my ass once last time.  I'm still the other woman... Read More
Posted by: otherwoman on 2008-05-05 21:27:03
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Since I last wrote I've been proposed to, asked out, split up, and rumoured to be having an affair with a married man. The first one, being proposed to, is a situation that got... Read More
Posted by: cedge on 2008-05-02 21:00:28
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i live in a third world country. if one stays here, find a job or do business, it will do. one can survive. but it will be a hand-to-mouth exixtence- what one earns is just enough to feed himself.... Read More
Posted by: espada on 2008-04-30 01:13:19
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Ok so now that I know he's married the best thing for me to do would be to stop talking to him, right? Well not me, The inner slut in me said "who cares" his wife wont find out, and I... Read More
Posted by: Pinknchanel on 2008-04-23 01:02:14
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This is in response to another blog, entitled, "Infidelity," which can be found here: www.thoughts.com/index.php Well, before I became a Christian, I was in an... Read More
Posted by: cas33 on 2008-04-14 10:13:29
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So months later Im still having an affair with this guy while being married to another.  I find myself spending more time with my boyfriend than i do my husband. Here i have this perfect... Read More
Posted by: maelenebaby on 2008-04-08 23:47:58
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Still in the past . . .On September 19th my best friend and his best friend had a beautiful baby girl. Our respective best friends were another married couple. I had gone to the hospital that... Read More
Posted by: prelude2it on 2008-04-01 23:59:00
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Still in the past. Over the next month, we kept seeing each other. He was absolutely wonderful. He was there when I needed him and we talked all of the time. We were doing almost everything... Read More
Posted by: prelude2it on 2008-04-01 23:59:00
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I was blessed this week in the midst of my overwhelming depression of late to have some positive things happen. Maybe this means that I'm not all bad in karma's eyes. I got a new job,... Read More
Posted by: befree4once on 2008-03-11 15:20:26
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I work with a lot of women and of course there is always the lust that you feel for certain ones. But a couple here I have really begun to have feelings for. Has anyone had an office affair? Is it... Read More
Posted by: guitarplayer471 on 2008-03-05 14:22:12
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Well my husband and I had the divorce talk again this morning. We always seem to do it during the morning as we are getting ready for work, well he was getting ready. I couldn't get out of bed... Read More
Posted by: befree4once on 2008-02-29 14:54:31
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Well the thing that I knew was coming finally came. It took a lot longer than I imagined it would, like 2 1/2 years later. I'm such an idiot. I just need to tell my story and work out my... Read More
Posted by: befree4once on 2008-02-21 20:01:26
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Okay I've had the surgery, came out pain free and went home 24 hours later, now I wished I stayed another day but you can't sleep in hospitals.  Plus, the anti-biotic they gave me prior to... Read More
Posted by: Robochicken on 2008-02-13 00:03:08
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Okay, so now that I have spent the past 5 weeks on an emotional downhill spiral because my husband is having an affair and I'm home with a herniated disc in my neck and the pain is unbearable most... Read More
Posted by: Robochicken on 2008-01-22 18:12:40
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Okay so two step forward and 10 steps backwards.  I said I wasn't gonna see her forgetting that her daughter's bday was this saturday.  She pleaded with me to attend the party and I... Read More
Posted by: Kacijo on 2008-01-21 20:06:43
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So we haven't completely cut the tie have agreed not to see each other but continue with the text messaging.  Only spent time talking about our better halves.  I have missed my friend and... Read More
Posted by: Kacijo on 2008-01-18 15:17:14
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Thank you 4 the comments they have been very helpful.  Last night had a good cry and decided to end things cause that would hurt less than continuing and  then leaving.  I still... Read More
Posted by: Kacijo on 2008-01-17 16:45:12
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How stupid is this?  I have an affair with my wife millions of miles away and now I am more lonely now then I was before the affair.  I find myself waiting for my phone to make a noise so... Read More
Posted by: Kacijo on 2008-01-16 19:53:06
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Thursday 6 December I didn't send the kids to John's last weekend. I just don't trust him, I don't know what he's capable of anymore. Once upon a time, he would have sacrificed anything for... Read More
Posted by: scratchkitty on 2008-01-16 01:26:33
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well it's another day and more confusing than ever i guess.  i am so tired of all the drama and all the confusion in life. i think more than anything, that is the reason i want this diorce. i... Read More
Posted by: someone74 on 2008-01-13 12:58:08
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So i have spoken to 3 diff people today about all of this but no one can offer any form of advice. In my heart i know what needs to be done its just a matter of growing the balls to do it,... Read More
Posted by: MissThinks2Much on 2008-01-12 03:31:00
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I just need to say this too because I am so angry... IF YOU ARE CHEATING AND YOU HAVE CHILDREN, YOU ARE RUINING THEIR LIVES. You might not think it will have a huge impact on them, but if... Read More
Posted by: anattempttolive on 2008-01-11 02:31:18
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I really want to call my mom right now, but I can't. Today I was driving back from the mall and I got stuck in that 202 traffic - that same traffic you lied about and claimed to be stuck in... Read More
Posted by: anattempttolive on 2008-01-11 02:22:00
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Tonight is the hardest night. MM called  tonight to tell me that he had had a big row with his wife and that he had told her that he didn't want to be with her any more. He cried on the phone... Read More
Posted by: TrulyMadlyDeeply on 2008-01-07 16:57:30
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I think I am going to leave my husband for another man. This man, MM is the love of my life... I met him 23 years ago and have loved him ever since, and last month fate plonked him right into... Read More
Posted by: TrulyMadlyDeeply on 2008-01-07 16:39:11
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