he was my friend for 25 years,  i met him when i met ball and chain, well anyway , he never judged me,  never made a move on me, and there were time he could have,, that was pre children and ya i likes my cold beers,,, well any way we were the three musketeers, a loud irishmen, his voice was one that is loud, and he never was shouting, thats just the way he was loud, but big hearted, he died suddenly about 6 years ago,,,, at least my boys remember him, uncle tim, shit i miss him,,,,,,,,,,,,,peace