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 she wakes up
and still forgets he is gone, she comes to and remembers hes no longer there, so she goes through her ritual as usual,as she did for years, she has moved twice,with the help of her family, who only want her happy, i am afraid to go see her,without him being there with her, i am afraid i will cry,and then she will cry,crap i dont want to make her sad, she is healing  slowly, i have to go see her on my sons birthday,couse its her dead husbands birthday also,we always celebrated together, what to do,bla,bla,bla,  oh i will figure something out,  coffee is ready,
    Posted by bjm1 on 2008-07-21 20:51:00 | Rating: | Views: 30
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When you have lost someone - those first few seconds of waking are the best part of your day - before it all settles into your brain what has happened. I think it is good to just be sad with her.
Posted by  Ceta  on 2008-07-21 20:59:45 
  
Barbarajune..we all go through this in our lives. Remember this..she is still with the living. Your avoiding her so that you don't have to bring her pain, and so you don't have to revisit the pain..hurts everyone. Her life needs to be filled with your love and the love of your sons. Death is a final thing..and it is hard on the living, but harder still is when people avoid you and avoid talking about the loved one. Remember him with her and talk about how much you all loved him, the little things he did..etc. We can not avoid death..but we can help each other through the pain. Lean on each other and this too shall pass.

peace :) shemelts
Posted by  shemelts  on 2008-07-22 12:44:16 
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