well my mom and dad would fite, they werent happy in a cramped little house 4 little kids, my dad did not know how to be a dad, his dad was never around, he workeed his asss  of 18 hour days  owned a greek restourant, those greeks, well anyway, his father was never around, his mother adored him my granny,, everyone in the neighbourhood thought my grandma was a widow, they never saw my grandpa, he left realy early in the morning taking a bus downtown to work and he came home late at nite, so no wonder no one ever saw him,, his house is bought and paid for,,, its a cool old house about 100 years old.... my dad did not know his dad till they were older and became friends,, i am not making exuses for my dad beating the crap out of me, just alittle background...to be continued,,peace have a great nite..