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i didnt think it possible, a grown person mopeing, like a child having a fit, cant say it again, you hurt my feelings AGAIN no i wont let you in, gonna protect my heart,, so please dont start, starts out talking, ends in a fite, we need to learn to communicate again, thats the problem, they say you have to work at a marriage, well how FUCKING long, i work on it, i realy try to forgive him totaly, and my stomach doesnt hurt, its like i am forgiving him for myself if that makes sense>>>?
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Posted by bjm1 on 2008-03-31 10:59:00 | Rating: | Views: 60
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sweetie, i know what ur saying and i hope it doesn't take u as long as it did me to figure out some things are just what they are and get out. if u can leave and know in ur heart that u did all u could do for this broken marriage then u walk out with ur head high. u couldn't do any more. i stayed for my kids and that was wrong too. we do our children no favors staying in a bad relationship and then saying we stayed bc of them. i personally would feel terrible if someone gave up their life and was sad and miserable for me. i would rather have two happy parents apart than two miserable one together. too bad i didn't realize that a long time ago. take care hon
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Posted by lastblastkl
on 2008-03-31 11:11:28
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I believe that marriage is something that you have to make an effort on the entire time you are in it. But the effort doesn't lie just in "forgiving for every fight" it also is in compromise, understanding, love, respect, honor, sex, and everything else that comes with it.
If you are married, maybe you can try talking to your spouse about what just happened in the fight. Why you got angry, and see if you both can come up with a compromise. If you seem to get into screaming matches maybe you both can try a different method. If you feel like as if you are getting really angry about something and you are getting to the point where you are no longer talkingto your spouse or they are no longer talking to you, you both should take a breather. Walk away from eachother and calm down and then try talking about the problem at hand again later. If you find that you just keep getting really angry then maybe you can try some anger managment classes or evaluate whats important to you.... Having to pick up a towel off the floor once in a while because of your spouse or getting into a huge arguement about it almost every morning. I know what i would pick. Or even talking to your spouse how it is a huge petpeeve and ask them to try and remeber to hang it up or put it in the hamper.....yeah marriage takes alot of effort.... dont give up.
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Posted by LittleStar
on 2008-03-31 11:16:38
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A marriage with alcohol or other addictions is something completely different...read bjm1's other posts...
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Posted by Ellie2008
on 2008-03-31 19:48:11
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