as tite as you can today squeeze them and tell them how much you love the, be thankful and greatful  for what you have, dont sit around feeling sorry for yourself,  if you have your health be greatfull all day  look up at the blue sky,and always keep that wonder like i do, why is the sky blue? why not another color  has to do with the reflection of the sun on the earth or something, but keep asking questions keep that curiosity like children have, its so sweet,    peace