man  i dont know how he does it and not feel like crap the next morning?  boyhowdy do i remember them those nasy mornings after, yuk, man im glad i stopped when i became a mom, he just cant, people say its couse of his high stressed job, crab alot of people have high stress jobs, and there not flaminf alcohalics... will power and God thats how i stopped, its kinda hard to drink when your a mom, if you want to say prayers and the nitely ritual, they depend on me for the consistantcy in their little lives, some people cant just  stop like i did they need REHAB,,,,,,,