ya they have it every year  and every year HE SLEEPS through it, all the other fathers manage to get there for their CHILDREN, i told the boys i will be the dad and we ARE gonna have fun and have some DONUTS  with the others  my oldest friends dad was there so we went over and visited with them and had fun  i said i was playing the role of dad minus the whiskers,hehe  got a chuckle, my insides were a boiling,  trying to keep up a good face at the donut thing did a pretty good job of it to, i can pretend to be happy people by it, well when i got to my momvan i lost it,,,,, drove home, i grabbed a donut for there dad  should i give IT TO HIM. or would that be too mean,???peace