i wish he could or would understand,ive been sleeping alone for ahu awhile ,and im used to it, we dont have to do anything, ya we all heard that before, im not a prude, just a creature of habit,stay sobber and then expects to come into MY ROOM, well, thats a gonna take some time,  try to talk to him about my feeling, we end up in a fite, man its like chaseing my TAIL,  we are sure wired different  men and womans brains, we need to learn to communicate, that needs to come first, them  heck  i  need to be Romanced alittle  do people still do that???   oh it will work out,,,