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Last week I came to a point where I could no longer write on here due to the nature of the blogs in the last 6 months. It sadden me to the point where I had withdrawn from someone I care about very much. To that person I owe an apology. I went four days without logging in and while you might think that is no big deal well let me tell you, I have met some wonderful people on here and logging in and reading their post is how I get the opportunity to visit with them, so not logging each day has been a little stressful for me. After logging in on Sunday I was able to locate friend’s blogs quicker and read up. I can tell you that, you can come on thoughts and read blogs without logging in which is what I did for four days, but it is more efficient to just log in and pull up your friends list and read what’s going on with your friends.

I know some of you will think well they’re not real friends and to that I will say yes they are. I have a very small friends list due to the fact that I want to get to know these people. When I go on trips I plan my routes to pass by their towns so I can drop in and say hello. I speak on the phone with many of them and I even know what funnyman looks like because I had a few beers with him when I was in his neck of the woods. But that’s not why I’m writing this blog today. I am writing this blog due to two blogs I read today. I had no plans to log in I was just reading what friends I came upon in the first few pages I looked at and figured I would catch up with the rest next Sunday. Sydney’s sister Bia had mentioned the Ideal, which is a subject dear to my heart in this post Who Are We? and Ellie wrote a blog about not allowing anyone to put her in a box based on their perception of her. You can find that blog here An Interesting Email from a Concerned Blogger.

So instead of walking away due to all the immature assholes who have found their way onto thoughts I am going to stick around. I don’t know how much I will write, but I can say I will try to turn a blind eye to the garbage that has been littering the pages of thoughts lately. I can’t help but think is this what Ben intended thoughts.com to become? I would think not. So in keeping with what I believe Ben intended this place to be I want to finish this post with a talk about the Ideal. The Ideal is simply the Divinity in each and every one of us. Even the atheist can’t deny that we should strive for and work towards perfection. You see we were not born to be less then we can be, but indeed we were born to be greater then we are. The thing of it is this; the only way to create greatness in ourselves is through the Ideal. We have to hold that picture of Divinity in our minds at all times. We also must strive to attain that picture and to make it a part of our lives. When we do we will put away our petty differences and live together in harmony.

Let me tell you when you have achieved that picture don’t stop there, but build upon that picture a new and better you. I have kept the Hellion in me at bay for 18 years now because I have held a picture of me living without that part of my life. I have now upgraded that picture to that of a life opulence due to my ability to get along better with people. Trust me when I say it can be done and I know we can all function here of thoughts without littering the place with our garbage.

Thanks for reading
Big D


 

    Posted by bigd49 on 2009-10-19 13:39:52 | Rating: | Views: 155
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fascinating take on the site's intention.

Thnx for sharing.

Even tho we are not 'friends' I am glad you are staying and adding to this community.
Posted by  UniversalSeductress  on 2009-10-19 13:56:03 
  
We write and post where our thoughts can be read. We can't feel responsible for the things others write. We must make an honest effort to write constructive and thought provoking ideas. That is our part in this social interaction.
Posted by  GeorgesBlog  on 2009-10-19 14:01:12 
  
Good post. I found some of your comments echoed my own feelings. Like you, I log on to read others' posts. I have a few I make a point of checking on. A lot IS drivel but then again to some people so is mine. Even though I'm a million miles away I enjoy this blog site. Don't give up on your friends. They write to stimulate your thoughts as well as others.
Regards Shannon
Posted by  shanmc1957  on 2009-10-19 14:16:25 
  
Keep going, don't give up just because others are immature and arrogant. Sometimes society tends to get chaotic. Just stay pure, find a flow, and keep loving and living. The world (and this site) needs people who can put out positive material, regardless of the others who just post garbage.

Best Regards,

Jake
Posted by  Jakevince  on 2009-10-19 16:02:20 
  
Thank you for posting this bigd, I can really relate to what you are saying. I try to bypass the rubbish and attention seeking and simply continue to do my own thing here, but that's not to say it doesn't get to me at times.

I've missed you bigd.... glad you are back xo :)
Posted by  Kaybee  on 2009-10-19 20:44:34 
  
I hear you BigD:) Personally, I haven't been in the right mindset to post. I have had the time...just no desire.
Posted by  pitapie50  on 2009-10-19 21:35:18 
  
That is why I normally (99%) of the time read from only my friend's list. it is short like yours. Talk with you later.
Posted by  Louisj  on 2009-10-20 18:39:15 
  
I have to agree and say, that the "peacefulness" and want to blog here, has diminished a bit with me. Maybe it's to do with the bickering. Drama. Whatever the case may be, I miss the feeling I used to get from expressing my thoughts here. Glad to see you around and posting. I don't always comment, but I do always read you :). So keep writing my friend, if for no one else but you :).
Posted by  brlracincwgrl  on 2009-10-22 22:20:59 
  
Hey D.....like you, I haven't been on much or felt a desire to write. Also like you, I have a very small friends list, and I ONLY read what my FRIENDS, yes FRIENDS, write because they all hold a place in my heart. I love being oblivious to all the "others."

The last part of your blog reminded me of a song I have been listening to a lot lately..."You raise me up" The one line in the song goes..."I am strong when I am on your shoulders, you raise me up to more than I can be." A very beautiful and inspiring song...if you haven't heard it, you should check it out on the link below.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VqRlO

Hugs%u2665 Love ya :)
Posted by  DaisyConfused  on 2009-10-29 09:45:04 
  
I'm really glad you've decided to stay. Your "quiet" had me worried.
Posted by  BootLady  on 2009-10-29 20:12:14 
  
HEY BBD! :) Great post my friend. Glad to see you here too! Hope you are well and I will check in soon.
Posted by  Evanescence  on 2009-10-30 12:12:50 
  
Dennis, I am glad you are sticking around. I have not been on much reading my friends as I have had things going on in my life that have taken a toll but have been writing about them as my release. I plan to catch up soon on what my friends have been saying. Love you greatly and can not wait to catch you in Dallas soon. My phone still rings. :) *hugs*
Posted by  heatherslife  on 2009-11-04 01:59:38 
  
D you are one of the good parts of thoughts, without you there would be a hole that could never be filled once more.

Love to you sweet friend don't let the minority get you down.x.
Posted by  Crimson_Read  on 2009-11-05 17:08:45 
  
This is the first blog of yours that I have read, and it was very good. It made me think about some of the stuff that continues to go on here. Most of us try to get along, but sometimes there gets to be alot of jealousy and pettiness. It is really sad, because there are alot of great talented people here.

Thanks for sharing this!
Posted by  Hope_Springs_Eternal  on 2009-11-10 21:14:31 
  
D,

This was BRILLIANT! And yes, I know I am one of those people who posts garbage that is niether inspiring or uplifting, but I promise to do better - OK.

I am still going to post pictures of ladies with cute behinds occassionally, because I just cant help myself ...

- Thom

Posted by  Hugh_Pizmehoff  on 2009-11-15 05:23:30 
  
Wow, how did I miss this blog, D?! Jeez! That was a great write on your part and I agree, it gets discouraging reading drivel, mudslinging, see posts with repeated videos and jokes day after day. I can only hope that the bloggers who post videos and jokes are just trying to get their feet 'wet' and build their writing confidence up. Some start out small and grow into amazing bloggers!

I, for one, am GLAD you're back! I'm catching up with you today :) xo
Posted by  Ellie2008  on 2009-11-15 13:54:44 
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