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I am trying to be positive. It very hard. Was up all night with 2 sick kids. Getting sick myself, headache, stuffy nose. Feeling fat, the husband had the christmas party today. I thought it was tomorrow. Kids are home from school, its harder and harder to pretend. Its easier when he is not here. Its not so tense. He constanly thinks of places to go to get out of here. He came in and went next door, then went to the store and then went to someones house. He had been drinking at his chriatmas party, he should not have been driving. I would not let my kids drive, and hate that he is such a bad example. Sometimes when he drinks he says such dumb things to the kids. I know my son does not care to see him like that, He is probably going to come home in worse condition.
He drives me nuts with so many questions about when Im going away and when Im coming back He had me sign papers for our trust again. Everything is being put in a trust and the trust is borrowing money. He wants the trust to buy some stock in something and wanted me to sign a paper. He was upset when I wanted to read it, gott annoyed. Says he is giving me a copy, tells me I can read it after I sign it I have no idea what he is doing with our money, actually his money, it never feels like our moeny.., he has so many different things going at once, how does he keep track. It always sounds like he givesw himself pep talks when he is talking to me. Were doing this and were doing that, and im going to do this with that its all double talk. Im sort of numb.
yet very depressed, and its harder and harder to get dressed everyday.
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sound like he's either up to something, or has bipolar disorder.
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Posted by picasorock
on 2007-12-20 22:52:03
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i feel for you. my spouse is obsessed about money. he worships it in secret i think sometimes. he drinks all the time and thank God my kids are out and on their own. they know about him though. he isn't so smart that he could hide his drinking from them. please protect yourself and don't sign anything without reading first. you could be signing your life away. good luck.
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Posted by lastblastkl
on 2007-12-20 23:28:13
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Yep, lastblastkl is right...protect yourself ask why would the trust borrow your money? It doesn't sound right...it is your money too.
You have a job as well, don't ever think you don't...you are just not being appreciated.
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Posted by 2ndchildhood
on 2007-12-21 00:17:08
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im always having to sign things and he tells me I can read it afterwards, he made me a copy, and he is always in a hurry...gets upset when I question him. I sound like a person without a backbone, Im not, but Im in a position of no power, money is power in a relationship.
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Posted by bernadettesaint
on 2008-01-21 13:57:31
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