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Monday January 21, 2008 6:27pm EST

Ohh the perfect kiss. How does someone define it? After a encounter this weekend it really made me think about what I define the perfect kiss to be. I'll explain it with as much detail as I can :)

So like many college students, I went out Saturday night to a party with friends. Of course, like many single girls I scoped out the house as soon as I got there looking to see what cute boys had "makeout potential" for later on in the night. ( Note to readers: if you do this, please do it sober. Drunken cute boys, are almost never as cute as you think they are.) Anyways, I found my boy early in the night and after a couple hours we were upstairs enjoying a very nice makeout session.

Now I'm all for doing weird things. I'm a weird person. And yes, guys, every girl is somewhat of a freak. I don't care what girl says she's not, girls are always up for anything that will increase their pleasure. So anyways, back to the story. This guy and I were kissing and he kept biting my lip. Normally, I like this, but OUCH this guy felt like he was trying to rip it off. It hurt! I didn't want to say anything, but finally I just had to stop because my lips hurt so bad. I went back downstairs and no lie, my lips were throbbing. The rest of the kissing wasn't bad, it's just that one aspect.

What makes the perfect kiss? To me, it's slow, sensual, just the right amount of tounge, and maybe some GENTLE bites of the lips. Maybe occasional kisses to the neck and just the right amount of pressure when things start to get heated up. That's my perfect kiss, but it might not be yours. What kind of kiss do you like? Does it matter who the kiss is with? What can a person do when their kissing someone and the kiss just sucks? I'm interested in hearing what people really like and want. Let's share some spit swappin stories! Until next time...

Girl X

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