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 Thoughts on crying.

There is a book called "Clan of the cave bear" the main character begins as a little child lost in pre-historic Europe who is rescued by Neanderthals.   One of the things which fascinates the Clan is the eyes of the little girl.   Her eyes leak water, theirs don't.

I read a moving little story today which made me weep.   Not with sorrow, but with happiness.   It started me thinking about tears.

I am one of those people who cry easily.   Crying is not something I find embarrassing nor does it make me ashamed.   It is just one of those things.

Some of the things that make me cry?  

Stories and situations which are sad, happy or full of endeavour.   Stories and situtions where someone overcomes huge odds to succeed.  

Music makes my eyes leak - some music reminds me of happy and sad things in my memories, music which I find beautiful brings tears to my eyes.    Music which is not necessary well performed, but is performed by someone I love.

I cry if I think someone else is hurting.

I cry if I can see someone has a problem and I cannot do anything to help.

There are lots more things which make me cry.

The one thing I do know about crying is that when its over I feel better and can think more clearly.

The act of crying is a biological function which is triggered by our emotions.   How amazing are emotions when they have the power to make our body react.

Human touch is always comforting, even when someone is crying with happiness.

Please don't think I spend my life with soggy tissues up my sleeve because I don't.   But I never go out without a clean hankie!!!!!!!!!!!                  :D :D :D :D :D :D :D             I smile a lot too ...................... 
 

    Posted by bede on 2007-10-01 16:00:31 | Rating: | Views: 153
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I've always envyed people that can cry. Here's a hug for the next time you feel a sob comong on. {{{HUG}}}
Posted by  Pauligan  on 2007-10-01 22:16:57 
  
i have been told that i can be an over emotional person. i can even cry at a soap opera.
Posted by  bubblydi  on 2007-10-02 09:50:26 
  
I try not to cry infront of people... because i have been bugged about it as a child and made fun of.. when I did cry ... many times... I was the 'sensetive' one...

even my teachers made fun...
I would dearly like to know who that woman was.. so I could pay her a visit today... **evil grin**

but unfortunetly.. as per code... I have to be nice.. and forgive.. :P

however it did affect me alot...

crying is very good for the soul....
I just dont do it in public .. if I can help it.... people still dont react maturely enough to it...

dweeeeeeebs... if I may say that ... without being erased :D

ahem...
Posted by  Traveler  on 2007-10-02 10:07:43 
  
I like to cry.
It cleans out your emotional storage bank...cleansing tears.
Here is a hanky.
Posted by  DifficultSoul  on 2007-10-02 11:51:37 
  
umm.. can you be more specific?
lol

you are gurrrring alot these days :D
maybe we should take you to a dentist... might be a slab of meat caught in yer molars...

lions have molars eh?

I can see you have big teeth in your photo... and very bright and clean too... nice bug-lion-hybrid-life-form!!
**pat..pat**

no cupcakes tonight.. go drink some milk :)

Posted by  Traveler  on 2007-10-02 11:55:04 
  
Aunty:
Your writing has improved!Your thoughs get more fluent,your words get more touching.I'd love to read this post again and again.When i was done to read this post,my soul was driftedYou teach me another good reason to live a peaceful life that at least there are lots of kind people like you in the world.
We are not alone.
Posted by  feizhoujeep  on 2007-10-02 14:25:35 
  
A good cry and a good laugh are twins in the soul of a healthy person. In that person you will also discover kindness, stability and concern for others. Too strong to cry is too weak to love. Too serious to laugh at self is too mean to share. Approach both characters carefully.
Posted by  pooka  on 2007-10-02 21:33:18 
  
Pooka....

as in 'Harvey' ?

one of my all time favourites :)
Posted by  Traveler  on 2007-10-03 09:07:27 
  
I always try to keep myself from crying. I don't know why. When I do let 'er rip I always feel better afterwards. I guess I need to learn to enjoy a good cry.
Posted by  nrsratchett  on 2007-10-03 11:47:24 
  
Where are you?hehe,miss you.
Posted by  feizhoujeep  on 2007-10-04 00:19:58 
  
I am one of those people who cry easily too. I try to cry behind of people,or in the quilt hugging my pillow....
Posted by  cqfly2008  on 2007-10-05 17:44:43 
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