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Virginia Grabenbauer
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1964-12-27 |
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Charleston South Carolina
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I am a southern belle who forgot that she's not supposed to curse or sweat. I'll be 43 in December and I am recently married for the fourth time. I have a fondness for jewelry and husbands so some of my freinds have taken to calling me Liz (as in Mrs Taylor and her diamonds and husbands).
I was divorced the first two times (I stayed friends with the first one after a time but the second I would not pee on if he were on fire) My third husband died in November of 2005 of a heart attack and despite the fact that I have dusted myself off and gone on with my life I miss him everyday. His name was Micheal (husband one is Don and husband two is Cary so you won't get confused).
My current and last husband... trust me... this is the last time I am getting married...it's nerve wracking, his name is Tom. And he is my bear. He has long salt and pepper hair and a beard and unless you know him you might think he was mean but he is the sweetest person in the world...yep boys and girls... she's in love.
But I am supposed to be telling you about me. I am a writer (no joke ;) and I design jewelry (if I have to have jewelry to go with all those husbands I had better make it) I create web pages and I am seriously into medeavil reinactment (I am an SCA member - the proud Webminister of my home Canton and Barony and soon to be the herald of my Canton -I'll have to post some pictures) I love to cook. Micheal and I wrote a cookbook called "The Accidental Gourmet" which I finished right after he died. I love to sing and I am pretty good or so I am told.
I have worked as a stand up comic, a phone psychic and a phone sex operator in amongst the things I have done in my life.
I live to create. Whether I am cooking or decorating or making jewelry or making love it is about the process of creation....whether I have created an incredible dish, a beautiful space, an enchanting piece of jewelry or an unbelievable orgasm, its not just about the destination....the journey is just as important.
I decided on the user name beautiful_crone to celebrate an event in my life that could have taken me down. Tom and I were trying to make babies and were having troubles so we went to an infertility clinic only to find that I had cancer that was so far advanced that they had to remove everything. Automatic menopause...automatic crone.
At first, it was awful. I cried alot. I am still having the hot flashes from hell and their partner the cold flashes from the north f****ing pole but I am learning to deal with this. I look in the mirror and I am still the beautiful woman that Tom fell in love with. We are planning to adopt children. I wish that want to have kids would go away. My doc says it does when menopause goes away.
So I look at myself in the mirror everyday and remind myself that I have experienced nearly 43 years. In my lifetime at least four men have fallen in love with me (and that don't include the ones I tuned down the marriage proposal). I have been a good wife, a good sister, a good friend, a good lover and a good mom to more adult children than I can name here. So I can't have a baby. I am still beautiful. |
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You must be such a perfect person dear. I did not make my wedding stressful all by myself. The seamstress, my husband, the feastaucrat (again... an SCA wedding) and suddenly becoming ill all had a hand in that.
Further, I had no wedding planner either and while I am sure your wedding was far more expensive than mine I am sure that mine was just as wonderful as yours. And the only reason I won't do it again is that I have been down the aisle four times and I am finally satisfied. My you turn 43 someday and be able to say that you are satisfied. (posted in
I am never getting married again)
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I know that as a thin person you believe all of the hatefulness you just espoused but no one ever chooses to be fat and many things factor into how easy or difficult it is to lose weight.
I was five feet tall and 120 pounds when I was seven years old. Are you going to tell me that the rapid weight and height gain I went through from my formative years and into my teens was my choice?
Listening to you make these over generalizations is like listening to Tom Cruise swear that there is no such thing as mental illness.
And by the way, I did not decide that obesity is a disablility. The Social Security Disability board decided that.
Further, as I pointed out in my blog, my disability has nothing to do with my weight. I am bipolar, I have cancer, I have diabetes (yes, I know fat people get diabetes... I will make the point for you)and I have arthritis (since childhood) that is now neccessitating surgury.
Just a little constructive criticism here... you should really think through what you are going to say to someone when it is so obvious that they know more about the subject than you do. And unless you have been obese and suffered through the hell of trying to loose weight and the punishment of people who open their mouths without considering the feelings of others you don't know nearly as much about this subject as I do. (posted in
Its not ok to hate fat people #1)
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I love wrestling. Can't wait to hear what the life is really like. I'll keep checking you. (posted in
Hello, Hello (The Remix))
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