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Ok so my parents are divorced. My dad has a girlfriend that he's been with since my parents split about 5 years ago. Shes only 7 yrs older than me and she hates me. I use to get along great with her when they started dating, but over the past couple of years shes really started to be a complete bitch to me. I don't know why, I just know it's ruining the relationship with my dad. I love my dad and would do anything for him, I overlooked the fact that my dad is over 20 yrs her senior and the fact that they use to work together while my dad was still with my mom. I've done my best to try and get along with her for the sake of my dad and my half brother. She was pregnant with another guys baby when they got together and have had another since then. I love both kids more than anything in the world and treat them both as if they were my blood brothers. Every opportunity she gets she yells at my dad for doing anything with me. For christmas I got great seats to a hockey game and wanted to take my brother and dad. On the day of the game I called to see if he was ready and he ended up asking if she could come. I told him I had already invited a close friend and didn't have another ticket. She ended up throwing a HUGE fit saying that I never invite her to anything and that I should have bought her a ticket to the game. First of all, she hates sports. There was no reason for me to even think about inviting her. It was a present for my dad and brother. I didn't even invite my own mom!!! Well my dad ends up getting into a fight with her and gets kicked out of the house. Stupid crap like this happens on a daily basis. I haven't talked to my dad in almost 2 weeks because he refuses to say anything to her about what she called me that night. It was a VERY offense term that I'd rather not say. But he said he doesn't care what she says because she talks out of her ass all the time anyway. I don't know if this should bother me BUT IT DOES. Why would he let her say things like that about me? He's suppose to stand up for me and be there for me like I've done for him. I just don't know.
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Posted by beaner7104 on 2008-01-20 18:32:02 | Rating: | Views: 98
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SOUNDS BAD! you should say dad it is me or her! and see what he says.
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Posted by Princess_Me109
on 2008-01-20 18:36:06
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let it go,what counts is you love your dad.Hes in it for himself,I would be willing to think hes in a bind. Its a tough love thing. The girl hes with is oviously a BITCH ist class. You don,t have to associate with her unless you have to.
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Posted by flipmaster
on 2008-01-20 18:38:20
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Your dad is blinded by what this woman has to offer.Its sad to see whats happending,relating to my own experiences,even done to the kicking out. Would I give him the ultimatum,do you live by yourself or are you under the same roof.You may have to tell your dad,you love him but,there may not be that many ph alls or vists becasue of her,does he know she called you a name,tell him.Let that be the end of it.He will have to learn his lesson more or less
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Posted by flipmaster
on 2008-01-20 18:45:07
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Yea I moved out because he ended up moving in with her and we just couldn't live together. I told him I don't want anything to do with her. She makes me very uncomfortable when I come over so I don't go to his house unless shes not home. We can't even watch the football game on tv together!!
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Posted by beaner7104
on 2008-01-20 18:49:57
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As hurtful as it is, it's love and insecurities. It sounds to me that your dad is insecure and sees a woman. The thing about parent/child relationship is, it doesn't ALWAYS last forever. Your father sees you and thinks, you will grow up, get married, have kids and won't worry about him anymore. Its not even that he is in love with this woman. Oh and the woman sounds like she is a little to comfortable. I have to say, this is one of those situations, you have to just grieve and move on. Hard as it is, Life is full of pain, but for every one loss, there should be plenty of wins. Keep your head up and dont forget about whats important in your life. School, Career, LIFE!
**take care**
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Posted by Miss_Mona
on 2008-01-21 01:56:02
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it also sounds like this woman is very possesive and feels threatened by your relationship with your dad
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Posted by copenhagenblk69
on 2008-01-21 18:08:39
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