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So okay this is my first blog ever and Im just gonna go for it. Ive gotten myself into a predicament. It involves three people. The first was a guy I dated almost three years ago that basically date raped me. After everything happened and me and him broke up I became friends with his best friend(the second guy) who also no longer talked to him. After being friends a long time we ended up dating. We dated for over two years and I told him what had happened. He was the first one I told. Well we broke up about 5 months ago. Its been a whirl pool since. I started dating someone else who Ive fallen head over heels for(the third guy). The thing is that somewhere in the middle of me trying to be friends with my ex and beginning to date my boyfriend now they became friends and decided to become roomates. Which was wierd at first but we all became friends again so it was working out. But a big but is that my ex has now began to hang out with the first guy again. The one who raped me. Even bringing him to the house. Which by the way I sleep at this house probably 3 or 4 nights out of the week. I dont know how to handle it. I never pressed charges against him because I knew there was no evidence and that it was a he said she said deal and I didnt want to put myself through something that I knew wasnt gonna do any good. But I also didnt ever see him and hadnt until he started hanging out with my ex again. I dont know what to do cause it involves someone I love. By the way he knows but he doesnt know what to do and I want to be with him but theres a risk of seeing the other guy every time I go over there. Please Help. I need some advice from someone who isnt involved who can tell me straight out what to do. |
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Posted by bdaniel on 2007-12-29 04:42:50 | Rating: | Views: 103
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You were victimized the first time by being sexually assaulted and now, by being forced to be in the company of someone who you feel uncomfortable with, you are being victimized again. This is wrong and it is not fair to you. Your boyfriend and your friend should realize this and should not put you in this situation. I'm rather shocked that someone who is your friend would be friends with a guy who assaulted you in the first place - that doesn't seem very friendly. Tell your boyfriend that you don't want your attacker at the house anymore. If he really cares about you he should understand this and have no problem telling the guy to stay off his property.
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Posted by hairytoad2005
on 2007-12-29 09:32:07
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