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Okay....where do I begin? I have a daughter. Her dad and I are still together but I haven't seen him in 2 months; we talk on the phone everyday (almost) but I am having second thoughts on our relationship. I love him a lot but he hasn't been there for me at all throughout our 2 year relationship. My daughter is just 5 months old and he hasn't been there for her at all since she was born; he has only spent a month and half with her. The thing is he has never stuck by my side...EVER!!!....since we started going out. Just last year I moved back home to be with my family and he came with me...but of course he got in trouble with my family because he was drinking and being a dummy (he was flirting with girls in the bar and asking if they were single). So instead of trying to stick it out he ran back to his home town and left me when i was just 3 months pregnant....He just always leaves when things get rocky between us and he doesn't own up to his mistakes. But I always want him back...it's me...it's always me...I have no will power just to say okay enough is enough. I just want to be happy....i am happy with my life...i love my daughter but i just am not happy in this part of my life. I'm moving out on my own with my daughter and I was the one to do all the work.....He has never taken care of me....and maybe he never will....I just want to move on....and i don't know how to tell him....I really should just do and get it over and done with. I'm so confused....I just want to know everything will be okay with whatever choice i do make. I want him to just be with me and not make life so f'ing hard for the both of us. But at the same time I don't want to always be discussing the same issues all the time with him. So anyways i have a lot to think about and I need to make my final decision by the end of the month. On July 31st I will need to make a choice to either leave him behind or stick it out and demand that he own up to his responsibilities!
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Posted by anonomousgirl on 2008-07-25 22:54:17 | Rating: | Views: 65
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i say just leave him, this guy obviously doesn't care about or respect your feelings... you have no reason to stay with him... if he's not being a good boyfriend or father or a provider what do you need him for? NOTHING! i know you love him but a love that tears you down aint really love at all
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Posted by bLaCkbaRbiie
on 2008-07-25 23:01:28
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forcing will not get real happiness. What a point to hope for something that is hard to come thru. I hope you will be strong and look bright ahead you with your daughter. waiting for someone that not concern you will be a pain. I hope He does has a very good reason why he do that to you and your daughter. do take a look of my blog about advice for those who want to settle down...god bless you all
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Posted by GnR
on 2008-07-25 23:04:44
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Well, I am no expert on relationships. But think about this...do you want him to come back and runaway again if something got bad. Then wouldn't he be teaching your daughter to run away when things get tough? If he isn't there then to be strong and take care of you and your daughter, then forget him. I hope you make the right decision and I know its tough, but I am sure you will. Good Luck!
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Posted by jrzyboy11
on 2008-07-25 23:17:53
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