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Ok, so basically there are 2 things in my life right now that are driving me crazy. 1st off I am insanely jealous. I have been with my guy for almost 9 months and he tells me I am beautiful every day and is so sweet. However, whenever we watch tv and there is a hot girl on the screen, I think that he wants someone that looks like "her". Or if we are out and I see a hot girl I secretly watch him to see if he looks. Most of the time he doesn't but I still can't get over it. Any ideas? Another thing bothering me is he just got put on alert from the army. He is in the reserves and now he may get deployed. I am terrified. I have never been so in love and it's going to be so hard. But he is worth waiting for.

Cyanide

Posted by alluringcyanide on 2007-08-20 13:53:38 | Rating:

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		Let him look as long as he doesn't touch, you have nothing to worry about there. On alert is another matter. Try to get him to drop the Army reserve. lateral to the Coast Guard or Air Force Reserves or get out. Iraq is a death/disibility sentence. My son came back little more than a vegetable after two years in Iraq. It is not worth it. Get him out now.
Posted by penumbra88 on 2007-08-20 14:03:50


		how would he go about getting out of it? i didn't think it was that easy
Posted by alluringcyanide on 2007-08-20 14:12:57


		If you love him then trust him. Looking is one thing as long as he dosnt touch. Trust is hard but if you love then you have to have it. The other thing I think your screwed on.
Posted by JasonK25 on 2007-08-20 14:41:36


		It's not that I don't trust him. I let him go out with the guys with no problem and I honestly know he wouldn't cheat on me. I just can't stand thinking he finds another girl more attractive than me. I'm telling u I am so stupid about it but I can't change it. Ugh.
Posted by alluringcyanide on 2007-08-20 15:40:25


		If he is so worth waiting for, why are you so worried he's going to cheat on you. It sounds more like you are a bit self-conscious about yourself. Don't put him on the spot when you have a hang up.
Posted by freehal04 on 2007-08-20 15:53:20


		did i not just say i know he wouldn't cheat on me? Thats not my issue. My problem is I have a problem thinking he thinks other girls are prettier. There is a difference.
Posted by alluringcyanide on 2007-08-20 16:26:50


		I understand the constant fear and feeling of inferiority...I feel that way myself pretty often. Discuss your hangups with him and ask for reassurance. Don't let this little issue mess things up or make you worry; it's not worth it. Positive self-talk helps as well; don't let possible personal insecurities mess you up.
Posted by convoybutterfly on 2007-08-25 12:05:30


		wow, you sound exactly how i was a year ago, i was so jealous. It takes time to get over it but you have to. dont let this jealousy ruin your relationship. and hey, you arent alone! My boyfriend of 2 years is in the military and is in the reserves. Hang in there girl, if this guy is a great as he sounds, just let go of your jealousy. Love him as he loves you
Posted by Roxanne_Star on 2007-09-13 15:21:39