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How can it be?

I often wonder how can it be that out of the same union of mother and father so many types of people are born. You can have terrible parents full of hate and deception and out that union is born a vermin and a  honest hard working kid.   There are also the honest, loving, caring parents who have a murdering son and a law abiding citizen. Not to put aside those monster parents who create horrible evil people because of their evil treatment towards them.

If you love your children and take good care of them, teaching them right from wrong, the value of working and abiding by the law, love for God and country. You might end up with good God fearing citizen who is a hard worker kid, who saves the money he/she earns in order to buy what she/he wants.  On the other hand you can end up with a whinner, continuos complainer, easy quiter, bad temper, depressed kid given to tandrums even after they reach adult life.   What the heck is going on you wonder? Why such an immense difference between kids from the same parents. Why some kids are happy and have, I will conquer the world attitude about things, while it's sibbling is  negative about everything.

Is a person born already given the type of personality he/she will have for life. Maybe a person is born with a certain spirit either for good or bad? Perhaps one of the kids copy the father or mother or both. Does the circle of misery continues until the genetic make up is broken. Is it by example that kids develop a personality? But, then if it is by example, then why one comes out with a positive outlook and the other with a negative view in life?
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