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I am currently in a relationship with a lady who thinks she is right all the time. Okay okay they say all women are like that but that is not what i am saying not at all don't want to affend everyone anyways. We spend hours debating about the strangest things i mean not that i willing keep it up she just brings it up and it never stops i do not know why just does. It seems like even when i know thta she is wrong even when i agree with her she still keeps it going on and on and on i mean its going on 3 years for us but this girl is crazy i think that is why i enjoy being with her and it made me fall in love but i still think it would be alot better if she just you know gave in sometime. Don't get me wrong a typical stubbern and hardheaded guy but i mostly give in because if not it will never stop then she thinks when she gives up she says same thing about me so it is confusing i just want to make sure i am not the only one
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Posted by ZMerriman on 2007-10-29 14:09:31 | Rating: | Views: 89
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She wouldn't happen to be a Sagittarius would she?:P I know people like her. I too find it a bit invigorating...but it gets old afterwhile. If you feel it becoming a bit grating, I'd be concerned. Fun is fun, but I get tired hearing the same song every day at work. I also don't like one way streets that never end. Turnabouts are fair play.
Think about it.[And, good luck:P]
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2007-10-29 14:27:10
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Okay... I'm a woman, and I'm in a relationship were at first he was always right. Forget arguing because it would just blow up into a huge fight. It was more like, he thought that he knew what I was saying. When the fact of the matter was, I wasn't saying it, but of course, at that time, he was right. We haven't been together too long. Not three years by far. With my situation and with what I've been through, there were stuff that I had to learn. -Maybe I approached him wrong... whatever it may have been. Anyways, I think we are past that. He had his life made for him while he grew up. I worked my butt off so that I wouldn't get in trouble. We are different and after our last major fight we talked. We learned more about one another. That's the key. Usually if the stupidest thing brings up an argument, then that usually (not always) means that there's a deeper problem. It's something that the two of you can work on. You're not alone with this.
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Posted by eternity323
on 2007-10-29 14:46:05
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I know this might not be worth much but sometimes people feel the need to prove themselves. I think that sometimes people think that they are not being "heard" i also know that some women just like the sound of their own voice. My suggestion to you is to talk to her about it. Tell her that it annoys you when she does it. She may not even realize that she is, also if she is always trying to convince you that you are wrong then perhaps she doesn't respect you enough for you to have your own opinions and your own thoughts. If such is the case then you might want to look for a new fish. A lot of people would then turn around and say "but we have been together for 3+ years blah blah blah" and i am just always thinking... what does that have to do with anything. If you are not happy you are not happy. You shouldn't settle for someone who doesn't respect you and your opinions. They don't have to agree with them but she should respect you.
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Posted by LittleStar
on 2007-11-05 00:05:15
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