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| Love exists? |
Even though I always complain about myspace being completely immature, stupid, ugly, and a breeding ground for whores, I go on there way too much. And when I'm on there, I always read those retarded surveys people post.
In those surveys, there's always that question, "Do you believe in love?"
]And, of course, all their responces are either, "iM iiN iiT :]]]]," or simpily, "OF COURSEE <33"
I think love is just an idea someone's created.
So, the first time you thought you were "in love" you were in what, middle school? Don't deny it, we've all been there and thought that we were in love with our first boyfriend/girlfriend when we were 13. At such a young age, after we've read all these books or seen it in the movies, love looks appealing. It looks mature. And maturity is all we want when we're in middle school, along with status and looking cool (that's why you also swore your ass off in 6th grade, even though you'd never think of talking to your parents like that.)
Because you want love, it doesn't take much to make you think that you're in it. Then, when you guys break up four days later, you may still be under the impression you wre in love, or not. Now you get a new boyfriend, and begin feeling the same way, or more, about them. Since you have previous expierence - in theory - of being "in love", you can say you're in love with this guy, too.
And that's how the idea of love goes on. I'm not sure if I'm explaining this well enough, but if you were raised in a liberal household, you most likely turned out liberal. Because when you were younger, you were easily impressioned, and even though you begin forming your own opinions as you got older, you may hold onto some of those old ones. That may not make sense to you, sorry.
Of course you love your children, or your parents, or your siblings, or someone close to you. That's not what I'm trying to say.
I think what people call "love" is more of respect and care for that person. They make you happy.
When someone decides they are no longer in "love", they are actually just realizing that they are not as happy as they used to be. It hurts because you were happy with what you had, but you're not going to have it anymore.
That's what I think. Feel free to critisize me, partly agree, or wonder what the fuck I'm talking about. I'm not going to force my opinion on you (ever.)
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