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I did a little test, I use the term lightly because I didn't know I was going to do it at the time.
I went online into a chat room.  Used my real picture and all my information was correct.  Men started pm'ing me like crazy (no I'm not some beauty queen by any stretch of the imagination), I think perhaps they were just bored.  Anyway I got the usual questions, ASL (which I find to be super annoying by the way).  I informed all the men that the information was in fact in my profile.  I got a lot of, "Oh you're married?" and I said yes.  95% of the men were also married... the question that followed was always the same.... "Are you happily married?"  My answer, "Yes, are you?".  Their answers were normally, "Yes" or "Somewhat"... but what lead after that was, "I"m bored at home sexually.  I want something different."  99% of these married men ended up asking me to lunch, to meet them for dinner or to even meet them in a hotel room.  I'm not talking about 1 or 2 guys here... I'm talking 10+ that did this.  Which lead me to think, I wonder if my husband does this.  Does he think that our love life is lacking and looking for something on the side? 
I would LOVE to say that the answer is no!  But am I sure?  No.  We have a decent sex life - or at least I think anyway, what if he doesn't?
It's alarming at how many men are so willing to throw their vows away to meet a total stranger on the internet for "lunch".  Lunch is code for Affair.  They were all up front about the fact that they want something extra for dessert. 
I will admit that I have been tempted (not by anyone online) in the past to cheat but I haven't.  I think because #1 I have a daughter who I wouldn't risk losing, #2 I love my husband, #3 I fear the wrath of God, #4 my conscience is a bitch.  
I do have to wonder though - what would it take for me to let my wall down and end up cheating - how do people justify it to themselves and make it "ok" in their eyes?

Posted by Whitters on 2007-10-02 08:03:15 | Rating: n/a | Views: 121


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Posted by
whiteknight
on 2007-10-05 12:52:07
 
Want an answer? Women that do not care enought to ask the question and wonder, who do not see their marriage as something that needs caring for(read my blog) and they slowly push the man away. And yes, there are men that could have the perfect woman FOR THEM at home, that love them, do whatever they desire, cook, clean, and really do anything this man could ask who still cheat and they are asses. I just think that your story has an intresting detail, you met these men on the net...if the man is happy he is not trolling there most of the time. So the amount of happy men that cheat through the net is probably smaller than the amount that cheat after meeting a woman at the office or on a trip or wherever. So it is not all the man's fault or the woman's. And to answer your BIGGER question..I doubt your man cheats because you care enough to ask the question which means you do not neglect him...so while he coud be an ass and still cheat,,,chances are alot less than you think that he does based on your actions.
 
 

Posted by
Whitters
on 2007-10-24 12:45:57
 
Thank you for that answer WK :)
 
 


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