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Are you kidding me?!
I just got off the phone with my twin sister.  That girl is just full of drama and things that make my head hurt.  Yesterday she called me and told me about her good friend Sasha who is getting evicted from her apartment because of a felony that the apartments over looekd (her sister in law worked there at the time and didn't run the check).  Apparently Sasha pissed off the wrong person and they called the apartments and had them run her background and her husbands.  Both have felonies on their records, so they were given an eviction notice from their leasing department.  My sister called me freaking out.  See Sasha has 2 kids, one of them has been getting abused (by the person who called the apartments on Sasha) and Sasha told this woman she was going to report her.  *Please note that had this been my child, I would be in jail for beating the crap out of someone... assault to the 1000th extreme*.  Anyway - I told Sasha by law she didn't have to move in the 48 hours the apartments gave her.  She needs to be at home for the constables office to serve her papers to appear in court, the judge will then tell them how long they have before they really have to move.  I hope that it lasts her throughout the Holidays.  I told my sister I would take the boys (Sasha's kids) but I won't take Sasha or her husband in.  Sasha is a pill head... a major pill head, and her husband beats the crap out of her.  (that's what my sister told me).
So all was ok with what happened yesterday - that was the eviction part.  My twin sister calls me again today and tells me that she has a dilemma, Sasha wants my sister to call her husband and tell her husband that Sasha is a good person and everything being said about her is a lie.  Apparently - Sasha has pawned or sold most of their house hold items to get money to support her pill habit.  Bad news - my sister is her supplier.  (I know crappy).  Anyway - my sister is telling me that she doesn't feel right telling Sasha's husband a lie especially considering my sister pawned Sasha's wedding ring for her.  Yes folks, my sister stooped just as low.  My sister is afraid that if she tells Sasha she won't lie for her, Sasha is going to say that my sister stole her wedding ring and pawned it - when in reality my sister pawned the ring FOR Sasha because Sasha didn't have a drivers license, and when my  sister gave Sasha the money she got for pawning the ring, Sasha turned around and gave my sister the money for pills.   I told my sister that not only does she need to STOP what she's doing (her husband does it she just enables) she needs to man up and cut Sasha off.  She said she knew and was going too... but I've heard that so many times.
I am so disgusted right now.  I know addiction is a huge problem for people, thankfully I've never done a drug in my life (except alcohol) and I don't have an addictive personality - but seriously.  I don't know who I'm more disgusted with.  My sister for helping her husband sell pills instead of getting a JOB, when she's had CPS on her case for a few years, or Sasha who literally takes out of the mouths of her kids to feed her habit. 

I thought about making this blog private, because it deals with personal family issues - but since some of you are like my family and don't judge I figure I could share with all of you.

If you judge - don't leave a comment.  I have enough judgements going through my head - I don't need anyone to add to them.
Posted by Whitters on 2007-12-19 09:53:52 | Rating: n/a | Views: 110


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Posted by
Wayne
on 2007-12-19 09:57:57
 
ya gotta love family....it says that somewhere...or someone lied to me about that..
 
 

Posted by
Whitters
on 2007-12-19 10:02:24
 
You know, I love that girl. She's my twin - my other half, but really I am amazed at how much crap she puts herself into and then asks me for advice on how to get out of the crap. When I tell her to stop helping her husband sell, go out get a job, it all falls on deaf ears.
 
 

Posted by
bullseye
on 2007-12-19 10:05:33
 
even with family, whit.... you can only tell them so much. eventually if she keeps spiraling, you may just hafta throw up your hands... she needs to want to help herself.
 
 

Posted by
Rajah1116
on 2007-12-19 10:07:28
 
Your the ying to her yang....I don't think it will ever change..sorry to hear that she is involving you in her drama though, good luck chick, your a good person for trying to help!
 
 

Posted by
Whitters
on 2007-12-19 10:16:38
 
Thankfully I only offer advice now. I know she can hear the disappointment in my voice when we talk, but what does she expect?
 
 

Posted by
LadiLucifer
on 2007-12-19 11:11:48
 
Sometimes people need to hit rock bottom to realize they have a problem. At least thats what eventually worked for my sister. When she had no one else to steal or borrow from she finally realized she was LOW. It killed to stop talking to her... but whats more importaint family or those damn pills... at the time it was the pills and that killed. I guess since I'm not an addicit I don't fully understand, but it seemed like an easy choice for me.. but it was never my choice to make.
 
 

Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2007-12-19 11:18:44
 
I'm a recovering addict and the only reason I'm straight today is for Kaylie, she's my life and I would NEVER take out of her mouth. Addictions are a bitch and they're very hard to beat unless you have a great support system. I volunteer at a shelter for women. Most of them lost their kids because of drugs or alcohol. It takes a shock like that to open someone's eyes. Be strong...God has a plan for it all...
 
 

Posted by
Whitters
on 2007-12-19 11:43:29
 
Thanks Mamacita. I know that God has a plan for it, I don't know what needs to happen to Sasha for her to realize that what she is doing is so unhealthy it's not even funny. What irritates me is my sister is enabling her as well. My sister has 3 kids, yes 3 kids and though she knows that this is not a healthy way to make money - she hasn't changed.
 
 

Posted by
olp76
on 2007-12-20 08:43:37
 
Let's just hope that this eviction is a 'wakeup' call. I will pray for Sasha, and her family and for you as well. Let's hope for the best outcome.
 
 

Posted by
Jaded_Rose
on 2007-12-21 06:59:18
 
*HUGS* Sorry this is all happening at the holidays for you.
 
 

Posted by
PEJAY
on 2007-12-21 17:12:38
 
I'm very sorry to hear about the situation your sister has gotten into. It's really hard to turn your back on your friends, even if you recognize that they are doing more harm than good towards themselves as well as others that love them. Be there for your sister and just be thankful to God that your sister is not in Sasha's shoes! :-)

P.E.JAY
www.pjaysongbird.spaces.live.com
 
 

Posted by
ladiegodiva
on 2007-12-23 15:40:42
 
Sorry to hear you are not having an easy time of things.
 
 


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