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Wayne
on 2007-12-19 09:57:57 |
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| ya gotta love family....it says that somewhere...or someone lied to me about that.. |
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Posted by
Whitters
on 2007-12-19 10:02:24 |
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| You know, I love that girl. She's my twin - my other half, but really I am amazed at how much crap she puts herself into and then asks me for advice on how to get out of the crap. When I tell her to stop helping her husband sell, go out get a job, it all falls on deaf ears. |
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Posted by
bullseye
on 2007-12-19 10:05:33 |
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| even with family, whit.... you can only tell them so much. eventually if she keeps spiraling, you may just hafta throw up your hands... she needs to want to help herself. |
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Posted by
Rajah1116
on 2007-12-19 10:07:28 |
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| Your the ying to her yang....I don't think it will ever change..sorry to hear that she is involving you in her drama though, good luck chick, your a good person for trying to help! |
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Posted by
Whitters
on 2007-12-19 10:16:38 |
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| Thankfully I only offer advice now. I know she can hear the disappointment in my voice when we talk, but what does she expect? |
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Posted by
LadiLucifer
on 2007-12-19 11:11:48 |
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| Sometimes people need to hit rock bottom to realize they have a problem. At least thats what eventually worked for my sister. When she had no one else to steal or borrow from she finally realized she was LOW. It killed to stop talking to her... but whats more importaint family or those damn pills... at the time it was the pills and that killed. I guess since I'm not an addicit I don't fully understand, but it seemed like an easy choice for me.. but it was never my choice to make. |
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Posted by
Mamacita925
on 2007-12-19 11:18:44 |
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| I'm a recovering addict and the only reason I'm straight today is for Kaylie, she's my life and I would NEVER take out of her mouth. Addictions are a bitch and they're very hard to beat unless you have a great support system. I volunteer at a shelter for women. Most of them lost their kids because of drugs or alcohol. It takes a shock like that to open someone's eyes. Be strong...God has a plan for it all... |
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Posted by
Whitters
on 2007-12-19 11:43:29 |
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| Thanks Mamacita. I know that God has a plan for it, I don't know what needs to happen to Sasha for her to realize that what she is doing is so unhealthy it's not even funny. What irritates me is my sister is enabling her as well. My sister has 3 kids, yes 3 kids and though she knows that this is not a healthy way to make money - she hasn't changed. |
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Posted by
olp76
on 2007-12-20 08:43:37 |
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| Let's just hope that this eviction is a 'wakeup' call. I will pray for Sasha, and her family and for you as well. Let's hope for the best outcome. |
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Posted by
Jaded_Rose
on 2007-12-21 06:59:18 |
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| *HUGS* Sorry this is all happening at the holidays for you. |
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Posted by
PEJAY
on 2007-12-21 17:12:38 |
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I'm very sorry to hear about the situation your sister has gotten into. It's really hard to turn your back on your friends, even if you recognize that they are doing more harm than good towards themselves as well as others that love them. Be there for your sister and just be thankful to God that your sister is not in Sasha's shoes! :-)
P.E.JAY
www.pjaysongbird.spaces.live.com
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Posted by
ladiegodiva
on 2007-12-23 15:40:42 |
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| Sorry to hear you are not having an easy time of things. |
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