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Before I get myself into a huff and let you know why I'm a little pissed right now, I'm going to give you all a little back story.
In 2002 I started talking to a guy online named James. James is in the Air Force and was overseas (Korea) at the time. We talked about a ton of stuff. You name it we discussed it. We remained friends as he moved back to the states for a little bit, and through his first tour of Afghanistan, his life in Germany, and then his second tour in Afghanistan. We became best friends. Before he moved back to the states from Germany we decided we would meet. It so happens at the time my husband and I were split up, so I went to New Orleans where he was stationed. I took my best friend at the time with me. This was in 2005. We had a blast, we danced, ate, hung out. It was one night. That's it. I came back home and my husband and I thankfully worked it out. I couldn't be happier.
James got married January 2006 (I had no idea he was even seeing someone). We stopped talking. He text mssg'd me everyday with out fail. James' wife had a baby in January of 07, again he failed to mention to me that she was pregnant... I didn't see the big deal in it because hello I'm married and I have a daughter. He has all these secrets and well apparently his wife found out that he was talking to me. She blew up. She forbade him from talking to me, he stopped sending me text mssgs but continues to send me emails.
I don't understand why it is that she's like that but whatever. I think the big deal is that he kept me a secret, he didn't tell her about me when they first got together... so yeah there is a problem there. Anyway - I get an email from him just a little bit ago telling me to call him at work he has something serious to discuss with me. So I call... he tells me that him and his wife just got into another knock down drag out fight over ME... AGAIN! I told him to tell her call me, he said he tried and his wife said, "I don't want to talk to that stupid bitch." OK FIRST of all, why call me a bitch?! I'm not the one trying to get her husband!! Her husband is my FRIEND, or was my friend (I have to say he hasn't been contacting me at all to cover his ass).
I would love to know why it is she views me as such a threat that she feels the need to throw my name up every chance she gets! Hell I don't even know what her name is... pfft
I don't understand, I really don't! I thought James was the kind of guy who had a back bone and would say, You know she's a FRIEND and that's IT... but no! I really hope his wife calls me so I can say, "LOOK I am NOT a threat! I don't want HIM!" uggh
I'm so frustrated! MEN - poo poo on them!!!
Oh and yes my husband knows that I have a friend named James and that there is/was nothing there but a friendship.
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Posted by Whitters on 2007-10-22 10:33:04 | Rating: | Views: 180
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hahaha thats happened with me hahaha. what disrespect she has. she needs to get over her insecurities. LMAO this coming from me.. lmao
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Posted by Iced_Nympho
on 2007-10-22 10:37:25
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OMG...She's freakin' married & has a baby with James...What more does she need to feel secure about him?...Those kinda woman make me MAD. So anyhow, did you get a costume yet?...
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Posted by olp76
on 2007-10-22 10:37:34
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Lol, poo poo? Very graphic, but what a blog. -Luke
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Posted by Lnlife
on 2007-10-22 10:37:40
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OLP, nope I went and looked and nothing jumps out at me. I have NO idea what I'm going to be yet, I know I better get a move on because time isa wasting.
As for what else she needs - I'm not entirely sure. I think that's why part of me wants her to call and right now I think in my head all these things I want to say, but come down to it if she does call, I'll be a chicken and tell her exactly what I was told to say and nothing more.
Who knows???
She does have issues though.
Luke - I could have gotten a lot more graphic than that. LOL
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Posted by Whitters
on 2007-10-22 10:40:31
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ha ha ha ha sucks for you and me. i have boy problems too. we are not so different.
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Posted by montaigne
on 2007-10-22 10:43:58
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Okay, you may not like this, but hear me out. This guy is scum. If he wanted you to just be his friend he would have told his wife about you long ago and you about her. Don't you find that fishy? She has every right to be suspicious. He will be cheating on her soon enough, with you or someone else.
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Posted by Rajah1116
on 2007-10-22 10:58:14
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OH believe me I know exactly what you're talking about Rajah. I too see him cheating on her in the future... it wont be with me.
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Posted by Whitters
on 2007-10-22 11:28:08
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I wouldn't go so far as to call James scum, but that relationship does have issues. It would have been easy for this to have been a "no big deal" but because of his need to keep secrets, it has escalated. Yet, another doomed relationship due to lack of trust and lack of respect. Perhaps, that's why he's letting you know who upset she is. My unasked for advice is to walk away from the whole situation. It's a friggen big bomb.
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Posted by Fracture
on 2007-10-22 11:32:09
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I know it's a big bomb. I don't understand why he kept me a secret from her. I mean that's his WIFE. It does make me wonder if he was seeing her before he told me he was, and let me state that the ONLY reason I found out about her is because he told me that someone hacked into his phone and would call me so to please say I have no idea who James is. UH hello. I got pissed and told him where to go. We didn't talk for a few months after that.
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Posted by Whitters
on 2007-10-22 11:43:40
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anyone think maybe... just maybe he was worried his wife might get offended and jeleous by him being so close to you? i understand that he should have said something, however, you don't know his situation. i think if she has a problem with you, you should retreat. i know you mean no harm by it, and i'm sure you were there long before her, but she's his wife, and he needs to talk to her about the trust factor. do you know if he's cheated before? that is a big possibility why she doesn't trust you. it's funny how wicked woman can be huh?
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Posted by violet_maeee
on 2007-10-23 14:59:43
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