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Ok so he caught her cheating on him again!!! This time he swears he is not going back, but since last night he has been moping around like his life is over. I dont know if i should comfort him, or tell him is better off, but everything i come up with seems so inappropriate because i know i have feelings for him but i want him to be happy at the same time. I cant tell him outright how i feel because he is hurting right now. How can someone hurt someone and not even be sorry for it? I just dont understand why people treat the people they supposedly care about so badly. I did talk to him about how i have been feeling lately but he asked me such a HUGE question and i didnt know how to answer him.
HE ASKED ME IF I LOVED HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!
And the scary thing is i dont know... I have never been so confused in all my life. He is the most infuriating man! First he acts as if i dont exist or mean nothing to him and now hje wants to know if i love him ( and i dont mean friend love, i mean LOVE love)!!!!! He messes with my head to much! I dont even know where we stand as friends now because he has been texted me all day with silly questions like "Do you miss me?" and things like that!! Of course i miss him!! He is all i ever think about...I just hate being so confused.
But the absolute worst part of it all is she ( the stripper girlfriend) has been texting me all day too. She wants me to get them back together and i just dont know what to say because i care about him, and i want to be selfish( keep him all to myself), but on the other hand i want him to be happy...even if its not with me.
So i guess my question is do i continue with the monotiny that has become my life without him or do i do something for myself and answer the question (that i just cant seem to admit or dont know if i can).
Someone anyone please help!
S.O.S
Lost and confused without him! |
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Posted by Whatsername on 2008-01-09 12:17:59 | Rating: | Views: 66
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tell him how you feel how you've felt all along... the worst he could do would be laugh and tell everyone you both know so they could all laugh too.... and then they too would move on with their lives... and best case is????? if you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always got!! you can have everything you want, just don't wait for it to be handed to you- take it.
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Posted by Zamicida
on 2008-01-09 13:29:26
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Ask him if he loves you.
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Posted by Pauligan
on 2008-01-09 13:29:46
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i know i should tell him but i am a little afraid that its too soon after the breakup and now he is staying with me and sharing my room but i dont know what to do
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Posted by Whatsername
on 2008-01-10 11:26:56
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if he just recently is coming out of a relationship dont let him jump into one with you. thatd make you the rebound girl. if he has real genuine feelings for you waiting a little while shouldnt hurt anything.
another thing to concider is, does he even know what he wants?
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Posted by shye
on 2008-01-11 14:41:02
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Be real careful. Does he really care about you or does he really need to have a girlfriend? Take it slow. If he really cares he will be patient. Good luck.
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Posted by HungryHeart
on 2008-01-13 00:23:57
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