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How important is sex in a marriage? How important is no sex in a marriage? What if a love relationship is quite good in most ways, there is friendship and love and respect for instance, but it has always been or it has become sexless - can it last happily ever after?
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Posted by Wayne on 2007-10-18 07:13:56 | Rating: | Views: 203
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People never think sex is important until you stop having it. I think sex is very important - it's a way of connecting physically that as a woman I need to have. I can talk til I'm blue in the face with my husband, we'll connect mentally.
If I were to stop having sex with him, he'd just be my best friend... but I need a husband and that comes with sex. If it came down to where we both didn't want sex, I'd have to ask why? Is it just that he doesn't want sex with me, or is it that I don't want sex with him. Sex is healthy (as long as you're only having it with your mate).
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Posted by Whitters
on 2007-10-18 07:18:15
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Yes, it is important as a physical manifestation of your love for each other but if it stops there usually is an emotional reason especially for a woman. But if it was due to some physical limitation then there are always other ways to please each other. ;) Desire and sex in a relationship is the thermometer of the relationship. Something is wrong it will show up in that area first.
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Posted by Izzesmiles
on 2007-10-18 07:21:50
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I PERSINALLY THINK ITS INTIMACY PERIOD... AND THAT DOES INCLUDE SEX... INTIMACY IN SO MANY AREAS ON SO MANY LEVELS, SO MY ANSWER IS YES, BUT SEX BEING #2 AND INTIMACY BEING #1... TAKE CARE LOVE.... HOPE ALL OF US WOMEN HELPED U OUT A BIT- LOL... GOD BLESS~ T
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Posted by thernandez
on 2007-10-18 07:29:04
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i agree with everyone,sex, intimacy, feelings are all important, if there is NO sex of ANY kind... i think it would strain things a bit. and if the sex stops... maybe the people not having sex just need to try new things, to make it a little interesting... thats what me and my man did when we got talking one night, we agreed that it was same old, same old, and it was getting boring... so we tried new things, and it worked
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Posted by purplepleasure
on 2007-10-18 07:51:14
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i guess i will be the first to ask then. Why aren't you having sex with your spouce????
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Posted by MissShnn6
on 2007-10-18 12:38:39
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Who said I wasn't? I was just asking a question.
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Posted by Wayne
on 2007-10-18 16:27:06
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hahahahahahaaa.. :D
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Posted by Traveler
on 2007-10-19 01:21:23
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Hey Wayne,
Interesting question!
Nope sex is not necessary.
I say that because I'm not getting any.lol Important? Yes!
There are circumstances and reasons that I'm not getting any, and although I was what you might call, "sexually addicted", not so long ago. Things have happened that I am more aware now, about what my wife had been trying to tell me for years. It's just not that important to the relationship.
A relationship is built on love and sex is only an expression of that love. But when it comes down to it sex is only sex, a physical responce to a given stimuli.
By the way now that I have found one of your posts I think I'll be able to put you on my friends list.
Good topic!
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Posted by jwcj
on 2007-10-19 03:58:55
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Wayne I was wrong, I don't know how to get you on my friends list.
My friend Luke told me once and I actually do have a couple of people there, but I forgot how I did it. lol
I do have an excuse, DRUGS! I'll tell you about that later.
Okay someone tell me how to add someone to my friends list please. Again.
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Posted by jwcj
on 2007-10-19 04:03:40
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I guess what got me to thinking about it was that its just not the driving force that it once was..I meen on may 1st I dont go around yelling hooray, hooray out door screwing starts today any more..when I'm out crusin with my wife and I see a old secluded road my mind doesnt yell at me ..hey !! theres a good spot....I Must be getting old..
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Posted by Wayne
on 2007-10-19 04:43:41
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I think ANYTHING can work out just fine as long as both people want the same thing - and are honest enough to admit it or admit that they want different things.
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Posted by scotslad60
on 2007-10-19 07:00:44
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Yes. Going on 38 years. And, after a major heart attack that blew off a right coronary artery, an auto accident, two bouts with 2 different cancers. This is REAL love and I wouldn't trade it for anything. We do everything together and I don't even miss what was once a part of our lives. Everytime I had major surgery, when I opened my eyes, my husband was there for me and I for him. And, I know he will be there for me at the end, and ever after. Just give it a try, you may be surprised if you concentrate on having fun, listening to your favorite songs, watching great movies, going on day trips, etc. just how great love and marriage can really be!
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Posted by SoundTheHorn
on 2007-10-19 13:07:50
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If it is true love then it doesn't matter. If it happens great if not thats ok too.
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Posted by MissShnn6
on 2007-10-29 20:24:25
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i posted a blog about sex and marriage today and then i ran across this one and all the comments you have helped me out with some (not all) of my questions on the subject. i hope it all works out for you.
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Posted by someone74
on 2008-01-13 15:42:33
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