Is that why my grand daughter gave me such a hard time? I never told her she was a failure, but I sure in hell tried to keep her on the right track. Boy she was a handfull, compared to my other three.

Well, my mother really tells me I am a failure and for some reason she hates my job. I love her, but it's annoying....

Well, you are NOT a failure....you don't have to be what other people say...you just be you. I am a mother of four and I cannot imagine telling any one of them they are a failure. ~Hugs~

I agree with daisyconfused. You are not a failure, it's your choice.
xoxox

use my friend Gabrielle's word- shes a "Buddheochristian"... entirely possible.. I'll take this into account when we're ready..

Sounds like my mom-she is still upset that I won't go to church :) Just think that's why mom's do best

And by now you should know better than to believe and/or listen to your mom, right?