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Hi I'm a male and 20 I want to settle down find love and be happy  I want a wife and kids. Am I to young for this? I've been this way since I was 18.
and will I ever findsomeone who feels this way thats at least close to my age? lol
Posted by Unidentified on 2008-06-10 21:37:44
   Survey Answers
You might, but why rush it? find a girl, get married if you
want. Wait for the kids, get as good an education(both of you)
as you can possibly get. Be better prepared to have a good job,
and a comfortable Life. Worry about finances is the #1 cause of
divorce. Children are great, they deserve stability, and love.
Too much responsibility too young can be disaster for a young
marriage. Wishing you good luck, and a wonderful girl to come
into your life.
Posted by circe on 2008-06-10 23:44:02  
I am 23, have been married for 10 months, and really really want
kids. I am 1 year off completion of uni and have had a really
rough first year of marriage. I don't know what to suggest. I
guess I am broken too. I also had been this way for ever- but I
didn't have much stability as a kid. Nor did my husband as it
happens... which has given us heaps of problems this year. Make
sure she is the right girl.
Posted by JesusFran on 2008-06-11 03:44:39  
I feel for you man..i've also felt that way since i entered
college but i know that nowadays, being financially stable first
is the 1st step before settling down..You would not want you and
your future wife to be arguing over money right? and before
settling down, you should be sure that you have already done all
the things you want to do that you can only do if you are single
(like travelling, pursuing a carreer, etc) And don't worry man!
You'll definitely find that right girl just for you! ^_^
Posted by dea0914 on 2008-06-12 06:36:44  
Be careful, honey. It's great that you want to get married and be
in love and settle down, but you have to make COMPLETELY sure the
girl is right for you and everything. A guy I know, Jared, got
married at 26 and he divorced too years later because he said he
was too young and him and his girl became different people.
You're still growing up and finding out new things about
yourself. So when you find the right girl and you know you'd like
to marry her... don't rush it. You have all the time in the world
:D Ya dig?
Posted by astoldbyrebecca on 2008-06-13 19:11:25  
agree with all the comments posted.. hhmm... for me its never
too young to fall in Love, 12 years olds do.. but marriage is
another story... i guess just enjoy yourself as of the moment..
(*^__^*).v..
Posted by moonlightsong on 2008-06-15 19:55:11  
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