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 thoughts.com - the invasion of the idiots.
Many of the older bloggers here have been quite disheartened to discover that T.com has been on a somewhat downhill spiral lately. I personally can feel their pain. I admit that there are many times when I open a blog and find myself fighting off the urge to reflexively gag. But this is a free blogging world. Even the "idiots" get to have their say.

The way I see it, the biggest part of the problem here is that people are so attracted to drama and needy for attention that they will go to unnecessary lengths in order to stir up the one and attract the other. Proof of my point? You clicked on this blog. Yep, you got it. I designed the subject and the first paragraph of this write just to prove my point.

The drama queens are either disturbed or unstable individuals that probably cannot help themselves or they are an extreme version of the attention seekers. As for those, they're harmless really. More like that fly that keeps buzzing around you and no matter how often you swat at it or attempt to ignore it, it just doesn't seem to get the hint and move along. Eventually, you yourself learn to move along.. but the important thing is to keep ignoring the fly. Letting it get you all worked up won't do anyone any good.

There are still a growing number of very warm hearted, intelligent, creative, talented, and all around wonderful people here if the rest of us will learn to take our attention OFF of the flies buzzing around us and put them back onto the things we claim to want to find. Like anything else in life, Thoughts.com is only as good as you make it.

That is all. ;)
    Posted by Unforgotten on 2009-11-07 11:39:40 | Rating: | Views: 264
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The only 'idiots' who bother me in the slightest are the one's who know everything.
Posted by  stevehayes13  on 2009-11-07 11:48:06 
  
Guilty as charged. ;)
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-07 11:50:33 
  
Oh, I did not have you in mind.
Posted by  stevehayes13  on 2009-11-07 11:57:53 
  
Perhaps you should have then. ;) (I do have a reputation to uphold)
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-07 12:01:52 
  

Hey, if you are batting at me - use a bigger bat - as I will never get the hint.




Posted by  vestigesofhermind  on 2009-11-07 12:33:20 
  
Haha. Not batting at anyone, vestiges. Least of all you. :)
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-07 14:23:26 
  
Regardless of response, I write things tha many do not want to read. As for stimulation and emotional appeal, those have never been my goals. As for opinions, positive or negative, I would continue my search for those who think independently. When responses are compliant with political agendas, I get bored. If no one challenged me, I might not have any reason to get motivated and into the events of the day. This post asks the important wquestion, "to what purpose?". This is my answer.
Posted by  GeorgesBlog  on 2009-11-07 13:01:19 
  
There are many serious writers here, George. The more serious ones are not here for the social aspect as much as they are for the intellectual or creative one. But all peoples come here for their own reasons, with their own separate agendas. I guess I was trying to say that while there may always be annoying things about this place, one of the beauties of it is that we are all able to be here. And even though there may be the occasional obnoxious blogger, there are plenty of other people to read if you choose to put your attention there. Personally, I never check the pops list anymore. It keeps my blogging life a lot more simple.
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-07 14:27:17 
  
Idiots on t.com? Never :)
Posted by  Angie_vV  on 2009-11-07 18:47:50 
  
Angie. You are lovely. ;)
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-07 18:54:10 
  
Nicely said, I used to wonder what happened to the T.com that I joined and loved, but then I realised it is still here ... of course it is! :)
Posted by  EasyToSay  on 2009-11-08 02:47:57 
  
Exactly. :)
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-08 12:04:16 
  
:0( I love it here! Guess I am one of the idiots though. :0)

Posted by  IrishMike6464  on 2009-11-08 03:52:06 
  
Hardly, Mike. Hardly.
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-08 12:04:46 
  
I,too, get annoyed at the mountain of whiny blogs here. But,too, we have to remember that this is an open free site to all(without advertising). And I think of the high caliber and/or funny blogs I find daily and it shifts my outlook.
Most of the idiots are short term and move on, while most of those that stay, only get better and become a member of a tight community- respectful and understanding of each other and their talents. It's all good!
Posted by  cabinfever  on 2009-11-08 04:24:58 
  
"It's all good". Excellent point of view to keep, cabinfever. :)
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-08 12:05:37 
  
It's not Thoughts.com - it's not even the internet - it's just the human race. Wherever we go, online or off, there are people we personally consider idiots. The trick is to be able to tune them out before they raise our blood pressure - and that's easier said than done.

"Like anything else in life, Thoughts.com is only as good as you make it."

That's spot on.
Posted by  ISBWD  on 2009-11-08 08:07:59 
  
Very well put, ISBWD. Couldn't have said it better myself.
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-08 12:07:42 
  
Every dog has their day a time or two or hundred. I've complained myself. Then it dawned on me....I am just as guilty of being an ass as they next blogger. I wish I wasn't, though we all know what's been said about that. Wish in one hand and @%^&( I felt one colorful metaphor was plenty) in the other, see which gets full first. I can attest to of having many hand fulls in my life. Wishes? What are those?

Anyhoo welcome to Thoughts:) I may be off base. I am old and prone to being wrong. Are you a recycled former Thoughts blogger?

I am a ninny I had to ask:)
Posted by  pitapie50  on 2009-11-08 11:46:50 
  
You've brought up a great point, pitapie. Many times, the mood swings we watch online are a direct result of real life conflicts that people are dealing with which we cannot see. It's always good to keep this in mind. We do indeed all have our turn at steering the idiot train. And no need to welcome me, for I am indeed little more than recycled waste. ;)
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-08 12:09:45 
  
Unforgotten, I think thoughts.com is just showing its cross of humanity. If we were all the same, it would be a very boring world, and a very boring thoughts.com. I welcome anybody and everybody..Come one, come all..We need the entertainment they bring to the table. :)

peace :) shemelts
Posted by  shemelts  on 2009-11-08 12:04:18 
  
Ah, entertainment. Some of it is excellent. Some.. well, some I could live without. (See "Log out" button for moments like those. ;)
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-08 12:07:09 
  
I've only been here a little more than a week. I hope I am nothing you discribed up above. If I am, I give full permission to slap some sense into me and tell me what I'm doing wrong.

Best wishes,
*Miss Nightmare*
Posted by  MissNightmare  on 2009-11-08 20:08:46 
  
Likewise, Miss Nightmare. I good slap from the "Sense Fairy" never hurt anyone. ;)
Posted by  Unforgotten  on 2009-11-08 20:59:04 
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