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Why do women play this card: "Where have you been all my life? No one has ever treated me so well. You're so sweet. I never thought a guy so great was out there."
Then 3 weeks later, "I'm so confused. I just think we need some time apart." All the while, the ex-boyfriend has wedged himself back into the picture with promises that he has changed and that he will do anything to get her back. Note to all you ladies out there, seasons change, people do not. He may get you back, but mark my words, in three months he'll go right back to the way he once was. We do this.
Let me explain:We want what we can't have. Once someone new moves in, it becomes competition- a game. We men are competitive by nature and we are really clever when it comes to getting you back. We all the sudden treat you the way you always wanted us to treat you. Which leaves you thinking, "Why didn't he do this when we were dating? Maybe he's changed." But that's where you're wrong. We know what we are doing. And once we get you back, the game is over. No more trying. We won.
Then you are left in the same boat you were in before you broke up- confused and upset. So again I repeat, seasons change, people do not. We will go back to our ways, trust me.
Look at it this way. If someone gave you a million dollars, would you give it back three weeks later because you wanted to go back to having nothing? No one in their right mind would accept a million dollars and throw it away. Sure, life was okay before you had that money, but I'd be willing to bet you'd enjoy spending that million dollars.
So what do I suggest? Cut ties. You broke up for a reason. In two or three months you will be arguing about the same things you broke up over.Don't let the new guy, who adores you, get away. If it doesn’t work out with him, it’s still better than sitting at home crying about your ex. Plus that new date, jittery feeling is better than worrying about what to do next. So, enjoy the new date smell. Enjoy lying on the couch watching movies and cuddling.
He will make you feel better while taking your mind off of the ex. Remember; you broke up for a reason. Getting back together just prolongs the agony that you just escaped from.
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Posted by Towelboy on 2007-08-22 12:03:48 | Rating: | Views: 162
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Fortune cookie advice: A good horse never chews the grass backward. Ethiopian advice: When elephants fight the grass gets trampled. My experience: Never look back you could be turned into a pillar of salt. Yes, that has happened many times but when they ask to come back to lover status, it is too late, I have someone else I am interested in so I say: Lets be friends and we usually stay that way.
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Posted by penumbra88
on 2007-08-22 12:28:59
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Just so you know, we know what you are up to. Women know! We are just as secretive with our motives as you are.
Usually after a serious breakup, there is a thing called a rebound. We run to someone who cannot hurt us. On purpose, we shut off the fall in love mode. We build walls after a breakup. So it is very smart to stay clear of a woman just out of a relationship. She may be using you just to comfort her and to build her self esteem. She rarely is looking for love so fast again.
Just my thoughts.
hehe
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Posted by DifficultSoul
on 2007-08-22 12:42:18
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It is my belief that things happen for a reason, that what goes around comes around, and good things do come to those who wait. There is that one special someone out there for every person who wants one. All you have to do is have faith. She really will show up someday.
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Posted by nichole7
on 2007-08-22 19:11:56
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i agree with difficultsoul lol we know what u guys are up to but sometimes we just wanna see for ourselves and usually we are right and we do use yall after a relationship and all that other stuff difficult said haha
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Posted by WtFiSuP
on 2007-08-22 21:41:49
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I suppose sometimes we "hope" it works out the second time around.
But you're right, people don't change.
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Posted by Cecy24
on 2007-08-24 07:30:09
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You are right...people dont change..!
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Posted by kazza
on 2007-08-25 06:03:34
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*sighsigh* I just dumped ma bf >.> but we really are better off as friends
and my old ex who i really am not over is back in my life +_+
i hate men T.T
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Posted by honey_heart
on 2007-09-29 12:31:52
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