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is love blind?

Hey my cyberspace buddies! how ya doin'? me? i'm kinda feeling crummy. Is love blind? i know- i know- you're probably thinkin' "what is the chick saying?" well let me let you in on the newest drama in my life. =p

my friend, Kaliah, she has this really cute boyfriend, i mean i was shocked that they were even together. not that she's ugly but she isn't the "i can't live without a boyfriend" type. well anyways, she got this new guy, he's popular, cute, funny, TROUBLE MAKER, he's the PLAYAH PLAYAH, PIMP, type of guy. well, now that they've been together, kaliah and i haven't really been talking much. we aren't best friends so it doesn't really matter to me much. whatever.
well the guy knows who i am. so here's the sence. okay, i'm waking down the hallway and there's one of my best friends walking with me. well, we're talking and all of a sudden so guy walks behind me and wraps his arm around my waist and picks me up. i was so angry i mean first of all i have a boyfriend and even though he wouldn't have any possible way on finding out, i still don't think that would be respectful of me to have so guy put his hands all over me. so i turn and see it's my friend, kaliah's boyfriend. i nonchalantely think it was just horse play but he pulls me to the side of the hallway where no one was and tells me that he only wants to be with kaliah because she seemed to be the closest to me and he only wanted me. he pointed out that all of the girls he's ever messed with have been girls who were my friends. and that none of them made me jealous enough to throw myself at him. so he decided to stop hinting and go after me. he also told me Kaliah wasn't even good enough for him; that i was cake with icing and she was wheat grass. (whatever that means.) that ass hole even had the nerve to try and put his wet, slimy, weirdo tongue in my mouth! well you know what i did? i punched the friggin sob in his stomach and walked off. well maybe it was a little lower than the stomach *if you know what i mean*

well anyways, that is not why i feel kind of crummy, i feel this way because when i pulled kailah to the side to let her know about her laydown dirty dog of a boyfriend, she accused me of just wanting everything and not wanting to see anyone else happy. she called me a self center, stingy, greedy, mean, lying bitch. Does she not remember her boyfriend having relations with almost every girl in the junior class? Has she not noticed that i have my own boyfriend? Has she forgotten about the rule where you hear both sides of the story BEFORE you start making false accusations? is she just acting this way because the guy is her "first love"? or is she just happy to be in the presence of a guy and doesn't want anybody to mess it up? i don't know i don't want to make her feel bad, or anything i mean i'm not a liar, should i have just had her find out the hard way that her guy was a jerk off. who knows, may be i should just stop talkin to her, i mean she's not my best friend anyways. if a friendship is lost over a guy you're not friends anyway. Am i right or what? is "love" blinding her?