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Hey, people in cyberspace. I have a delima (wait, is that spelled right?...................whatever i'm too depressed to hit backspace)
okay to my topic, i'm seventeen years old, and i'm in a relationship with this *sigh* wonderfully, hot n sexy guy named Jason who just happeneds to be eighteen years old and 19 on November 15, well i've just turned seventeen so......(what ever i'm babbling now) n e ways, we have been together for lets see, three years well i guess it doesn't count since i wasn't his girlfriend for the first year and a half- but still that's how long we've been "together" anyways, we had a long distance relationship, he lived in houston and i live and dallas, we talked everyday and saw each other on the weekends. we both were perfectly fine until the day i gave him my virginity- GASP- well he wanted to be around me more so he moved out of houston and got a house in Dallas( lets just say he "inherited" the money) anyways i started spending every single tick biting day with him and i enjoy it - i love him- but now he wants me to freaking drop school, leave my unhappy broken home, and come live with him. Dudes, he even gave me a flipping engagement ring. (hello, i'm seventeen, i have my whole life ahead of me!)
well, just yesterday, he called me and we talked for a long time. i asked him if we could chill on seeing each other just for next month so that i can hang out with one of my other friends that he doesn't know, i even had to go all the way and tell him she was a total geek (which she is, that's one of the reasons i want to hang out with her, you know to "teach" her on how to be more out going) he wasn't having it. i told him me and her needed to get some new "bff" time because i was really starting to like her. he told me that he i would have to ask him about when the time comes. then the next thing i hear is the freaking dail tone.
do you see signs of control? i mean how can he tell me no? this is my life! is he trying to whisk me away to be my FATHER? or is he just being a freaking jerk off because the sun isn't shining his way? Am i being a self, ego maniac B with an Itch on the end? or am i just seeing a guy who's in love and doesnt want to lose me? or a stingy s.o.b who just wants me to himself. PLEASE tell me whats wrong! AM I JUST A FOOL IN LOVE?

    Posted by Tiffanae on 2007-10-15 17:36:08 | Rating: | Views: 82
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Woah. Major signs of control issues! And you're right...This is not the time for you to be in some super commited relationship with a possesive guy who wants you to quit school.
Actually... I don't think there should ever be a time in your life for that.

Good Luck w/ all this :)

-MuchLove-
Posted by  Shannon  on 2007-10-15 17:49:41 
  
id say hes a typical young boy. He wants you to himself most likely just like you want him to yourself. The best way to deal with relationship issues is to talk about them honestly. Bring your worries hopes and dreams up to him and tell it like it is and let him do the same. Under no circumstances should you quit school. If you two want to be together there should be compermise. If he wants to control you you need to let him go and be a kid and have friends and fun. there is plenty of time for bf's later. But if he wants to try and understand then good he has to you have friends and you can hang out whenever you please. You know in your heart beter than any of us can know because after 3 years you know how he is to you. if its bad then you just may have to break your first heart girl. You should be #1 in your life. You know what is the right thing to do here.
Posted by  laughing_gas  on 2007-10-15 17:57:43 
  
Major control issues if you ask me! I'd say finish school, your only 17!!! Like you said you do have your whole life ahead of you. Even after 3 years he may not be the one for you, just think long and hard about how he treats you and what you want out of life before jumping into anything serious.
Posted by  jaded07  on 2007-10-15 22:26:51 
  
thanx you guys, i really did need that extra advice! luv ya xoxoxo
Posted by  Tiffanae  on 2007-10-16 16:00:43 
  
Oh man.
Don't drop school.
The way you presented it to him may make it seem like you're gonna leave him to see other people.. but he needs to back off, it is your life. Don't be controlled, break it off if you need to.
Posted by  xari  on 2007-10-18 22:44:36 
  
thanx, xari. i really appreciate ur opinion.=p xoxoxoxo
Posted by  Tiffanae  on 2007-10-19 19:21:35 
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