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Seems like I am struggleing for everything so hard lately. And everyone around me is getting things they dream of just handed to them.
I grew up in a family where I always got what I wanted, more or less so I would shut up. But when my parents divorced everything changed. There was no more money and I became tralior trash.
My husbands family is very poor, he grew up wanting for basic things like new shoes.
All of our friends are buying houses ( or shall I say thier parents are buying houses for them ) and starting families and getting the very best out of life.
While my husband and I struggle to get him through school and stay on top our bills.
We even had to move in with my mother, and we are still struggling, I just dont understand it.
I just want stability, I just want security, I just want to know that one day everything will be alright for us too.
But right now I am having a hard time seeing the light at the end of this tunnel.
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Posted by Thin_Inside on 2007-12-28 11:23:16 | Rating: | Views: 162
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we all want stability. But we all want happiness as well. The richest people make have everything but me empty inside. However you may not have everything materialwise in life--but I bet you have a nice united family. There is nothing more beautiful then tranquility in life. I'm sure after you go thru this struggle you are going to be a much stronger person. Don't let money blind you or your family. I'm sure God has something saved for you and I'm sure you are going to have that house you want so much!!!! Just keep your faith.
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Posted by rbge24
on 2007-12-29 16:18:49
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Not sure if you have a nice united family or not, this in part however, is likely to be a product of your own (husband and wife) attitude to finances. Looking at what others may have materially is unlikely to help your own circumstances, my advise is to make a list of income and expenditures and be realistic with your budget. Aim to develop your own marketable skills which will probably give you both a greater earning potential in the future...hope this helps?
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Posted by muzezzz
on 2007-12-30 02:18:54
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I agree with rbge24.Though you are in hard time for money,you may have a nice united family.That is enough!Anybody who has a nice united family should be pleased and happy and feel lucky.On this base,You and your husband could shoulder to shoulder do your best to make your dream come ture.Anyway,you can get money after you make great efforts,but maybe anybody can not do in the same way to get a nice family.So I wish you not so upset and get a new power.
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Posted by Cstore
on 2008-01-04 12:22:18
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