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I know it sounds cliche but talking really helps. I have been having some issues that have been eating away at me that finally came to the surface and burst tonight. I finally broke and I let it all out. I don't have any friends (yet) here so I have no one that I can confide in and just get things off my chest. Whoever said that people shouldn't bottle things up inside of them was absolutely right. It really isn't good for a person because like what happened to me, it will get to be too much then a person will ose it. Well, my RA had to come talk to me about a seperate matter (apparently my roomate and suitemates think I'm not doing what I should be, so felt the need to talk to our RA without talking to me first), I was in tears when she came. So after I was able to regain my composure, I took a cahnce and told how I was feeling and everything that I was keeping to myself. I'm not a very open/trusting person because I'm terrified of trusting people and making myself vulnerable to them; that maybe part of my problem, the issues that started my night. I felt better after talking to her but part of me is still unsure about the outcome of my problem as according to many people including my RA. The moral of the story is if something is wrong or just bothering you even if it is stupid.......TALK TO SOMEONE.......IT HELPS.
Side Note: Since I've started to blog here at thoughts, I've been able to open up myself a little more and each time the gap gets a bit bigger, thanks in part to the people who've commented on my blogs however they shall remain nameless though at least one knows woh he/she is.
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Posted by TheWanderer on 2007-10-24 19:29:16 | Rating: | Views: 102
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From time to time is great to get together with friends and relax for a while. Interaction with other individuals can also spark ideas for even more writing and discussing different points of views helps create a balance view of the life.
Take a good look inside, usually something is trying to work in you.I hope you feels better.
peace,love to understanding
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Posted by Sexyback
on 2007-10-24 20:02:17
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sorry that you havent had the chance to get to meet some cool people to be able to talk to. i have lived in the same place for twenty five years and i still dont have anyone i could call my friend. people leave or decide to not talk to you for no reason and that has made me leery about having friends. but lord knows that i need someone to talk to every now and then which i why i decided to do this.
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Posted by tcat
on 2007-10-24 20:04:56
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Sexyback,
Thanks it did make me feel better. What you said is what I want in my life. Being able to just hang around people are cool with who I am.
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Posted by TheWanderer
on 2007-10-24 21:47:02
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tcat,
I know what you mean when you say you are leery about having friends. I had a friendship that wasn't the best thing for me when I was younger and in hindsight, I've realized that fact and the negative consequences that have resulted and lasted. Joining thoughts has been one of the best things I have ever done for myself. Its helped me to heal my heart and soul.
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Posted by TheWanderer
on 2007-10-24 21:50:15
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Am so glad you feel you can open up here - warm hug and yep, talking can really help as well as writing it down too.
love & light
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Posted by kentlass
on 2007-10-25 08:45:15
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Talking and writing are therapeutic.
That is exactly what a Psychiatrist makes you do...let it all out.
It is empowering to find our Voice in the World.
Find your Voice ...
Peace.
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Posted by DifficultSoul
on 2007-11-05 22:16:09
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