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So, last night was another hitting of the god damn relationship wall. You know which one, the wall, yeah THAT fucking wall.
B and I have been together for a little over a year. It's about this time when the wall starts trying to cut your relationship in half.
Our problem is that we don't have any friends, so we never go out. I mean sometimes on a Friday night I just want to GO somewhere, get out of the house, unwind, etc. B didn't want to last night, and lately it feels like we just sort of co-habitate. It had been a stressful week for both of us, so I thought it would be nice to go out for happy hour or a nice dinner. Guess I was wrong.
Anyway this opened a whole nother bag of worms. I asked him why didn't he text me back saying he wasn't interested when I had texted him earlier in the day. He told me that me texting him during the day saying I love you, etc, feels like I am just checking up on him. I was just trying to be NICE. I would be ecstatic if I got something like that from him. So yeah, that made me feel like shit. Also the night before last he in so many words accused me of not actively trying to prevent pregnancy. I'm on the fucking pill, how active is that. I hate babies. With a passion. I DONT want a baby. I'm sure someday my hormones will get the best of me and I'll want one but for now, NO THANKS. and he KNOWS this and he still said that.
Anyway so I left. Dressed up, walked myself to a bar, and saddled up. About eight shots, two hours, and one sushi roll later, I somehow got out of there. Unfortunately I fell asleep against B as much as I was still trying to be mad. I'm hurt about his comments.
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haha...the baby thing cracked me up....I feel exactly the same way about them...they are cute and all, but keep them away from me. That sucks though that he is acting like that. Every couple I know goes through stuff like this right after they hit the 1 year mark....it'll be a true test of your relationship. The first year with Mark was great, but right when we hit that 1 year mark it went downhill. We were constantly fighting, and it seemed like he didn't care about me as much as I cared about him. I remembering talking to other couples about it, and they would tell me it was completely normal to go through this crap after the 1 year. You guys will be fine...I would say have make-up sex, but he might accuse you even more of trying to get pregnant....so I would go with just sit down and talk to him about how you're feeling.
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Posted by nakedtruth
on 2008-04-19 15:27:47
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