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I kind of feel like Ben and slowly drifting away from each other.  Or atleast that he is slowly drifting away from me.  Since our argument/conversation it's just sort of been a little, haughty or something.  I mean we get along fine, but we just don't seem to like talk as much anymore. 

He is getting excited about his new job, they are sending him a computer in the mail so he can begin the online training program, and then he is going to Tempe AZ in August... of course he leaves the day I get OUT of summer school.  Just my Luck.  I'd like to go with him, but I don't know if it is allowed, and I wouldn't want to get in his way.

As he gets more excited, I get more worried.  I don't want our relationship to deteriorate due to his long hours and the stress of starting your own business (which is basically what he is doing, under the guise of a corporation that already exits.)  They said to plan on putting in as many hours as you would if you were building a business from the ground up. 

We just... I dunno... We don't go to bed together anymore, we haven't had sex in a while... It's all very depressing.

Posted by TheAlreadyJaded on 2008-05-15 11:43:14 | Rating: n/a | Views: 63


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Posted by
KarKar
on 2008-05-15 12:43:33
 
Hey, I know how you feel. Does he act distant from you, or is just you feeling like your drifting. I realized that a lot of times when I feel like we are growing apart, he doesn't. I am the one feeling like that, so I need to change my attitude. I know how sad it can be. Hang in there. And smile. It's good for you.
 
 

Posted by
nakedtruth
on 2008-05-17 15:03:54
 
Well, how long have you 2 been dating? Because I think there is that transition phase in every relationship (you know when the "honeymoon" phase is over) that makes a lot of girls feel like the guy is growing apart from them. I just know I felt like that after a year of dating Mark. I thought that he was very distant and didn't care as much anymore, and I was completely wrong...he was just comfortable around me, and didn't think he had to do that stuff anymore. It was frustrating though because I still wanted him to hold my hand, go to sleep with me, kiss me spontaneously, and all that stuff.

Ben is also probably stressed about a new job, so that is all he is thinking about right now. It is going to be hard when he is in AZ, but I think you guys will be fine.

Oh, and why don't you initiate the sex? Next time you are in the mood just grab him and go haha
 
 


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