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My first blog.. on 2008-05-30 16:17:59 |
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Welcome! Very eloquent writing style!
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More BS Small Talk & Spazzing (on my part) on 2008-05-30 12:39:45 |
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I'd be a spaz too. Ben and I did the long distance thing for about 6 months and I over analyzed EVERY word he said, EVERY text, EVERY night he didn't call. He does care though for you, you can tell that.
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I love the way I love her on 2008-05-30 12:26:36 |
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This was really interesting and well written.
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I Think I'm Losing My Mind on 2008-05-29 11:23:03 |
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Ha ha, you sound like me. I over analyze eeeeeverything. I doubt he accidentally sent you the text really though, I think he wanted you to know and be proud of him. :)
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OUT OF THE MOUTHS OF BABES...... on 2008-05-28 16:24:46 |
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Wow... just wow. What a kid, and what an amazing man he will grow to be.
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Complete Vulnerablity on 2008-05-28 16:20:16 |
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Now you don't have to ever wonder ya know? It was an excellent e-mail, and thanks for letting us snoop :) You'll hear from him again.. and if not, you at least got it (and him :) ) off your chest.
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Well, I Finally Did It on 2008-05-27 22:45:23 |
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Let us read it!!! Ha ha, I'm so nosy. Good for you girl, go for it, you've really got nothing to lose now!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY BOY!!!! on 2008-05-27 11:13:51 |
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Happy Birthday Scottie! You will always be loved and remembered.
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You love her, but she loves him....Love Stinks on 2008-05-27 11:11:32 |
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Isn't that how it always seems to work out? ... love triangles, sigh.
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See you in June... on 2008-05-25 22:07:42 |
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Have fun!!
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Dinner and Drinks, anyone? on 2008-05-22 11:08:39 |
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Dang you're making me hungry :)
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A Wish In One Hand And Shit In The Other on 2008-05-22 11:00:22 |
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I have a feeling he will send you a nice drunk text or call. I know when I first moved out here I was CONSTANTLY doing that to my friends back home because I had no one to do it to here... wait check that, i still dont... so I still do it to my friends at home. :) Hang in there girl, you're doing great.
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Walk with me on 2008-05-21 11:19:46 |
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I totally agree, I made that mistake big time, and it definitely didn't work out and I was miserable while I was trying to "make" it work.
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Around and around... on 2008-05-20 11:27:36 |
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Ha ha, that's a cute memory :) Have fun! We'll all be jealous!
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Friends? on 2008-05-20 11:09:16 |
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Thanks for all your support, it is nice to know I'm not the only one who has felt this way!!!
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Finally, My First Blog! on 2008-05-19 15:15:26 |
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Welcome!
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THE SPOUSE'S 'FAMILY' DINNER...... on 2008-05-19 11:43:01 |
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That is so awesome! Your kids are smart to not buy into his BS.... and that's really funny about the gf calling in the middle, it's almost like karma. :)
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Everything Reminds Me Of You on 2008-05-19 11:28:48 |
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Awww, this has gotta be soooo rough. I seriously can't even imagine. I mean I know we've all been in similar situations but damn. He IS thinking about you though if he sent that text. My analysis (ha ha of course us girls have to over analyze everything)... I bet he is getting REALLY lonely without anyone to really talk too. Ya know he's with his bro and everything but it's different when you guys had the kind of connection and talks that you did. And let's see... 6 AM your time, would be 4 AM our time, yep. So what if he was drunk... maybe he was drinking because he misses you so much :) Hang in there!!
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Sometimes I wonder... on 2008-05-16 13:56:52 |
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Also been there, same boat, was somewhat of an enabler. Luckily, I was younger and somehow found the strength to leave him be. Now he is a convicted Felon that works at Papa John's pizza and has to give his paychecks to his dad to divy up so he won't spend it on drugs. Really sorry to hear your situation, keep writing if it helps!!
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Introduction on 2008-05-16 13:54:01 |
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Welcome! I'm originally from the midwest and moved to the big city (LA) so if you need any pointers on that, shoot me a message. :)
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Lunch, Italy, and Stomach problems. on 2008-05-16 13:50:51 |
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Me too... worry about things I can't control. That is a really odd statement she made, but I wouldn't put to much stock in it, just concentrate on getting your things done and then on having fun!!
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AN AMERICAN IN TIM TAM LAND...... on 2008-05-15 11:53:18 |
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I'm jealous! I spent six months in Aus in college, and learned to love Tim Tams :) You can get them here at a store called "World Market" but they are called "Arnotts." In case you can't wait for another shipment :)
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Your mama makes me a proud papa on 2008-05-15 11:46:33 |
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That's cute :)
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Puppy is at work with me, headache is too. on 2008-05-14 13:40:51 |
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I would definitely see a neurologist... I have gotten migraines since I was in about 3rd grade adn they thought I had a brain tumor... turns out a muscle in one of my eyes doesn't work and forces my brain to work extra hard to not see double... either way the sooner it is treated the better!! Glad pup is ok :)
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That's It?!!? on 2008-05-12 21:14:03 |
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I know how you feel. I always get this bad feeling that like "karma" is out to punish me for leaving my ex too. Hang in there, he will probably get to California and be more lonely than you, at least you have your buds. If nothing else he will see what he left behind when he meets the fake girls out here. Feeling for you though girl!!
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MY DAUGHTER STEPHANIE.....CHILD # 4 on 2008-05-11 20:28:27 |
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That was really beautiful and inspiring, she sounds like an amazing woman.
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Struggling against the force on 2008-05-11 18:25:54 |
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Wow, that's how I feel right now too, not as mother but just in general a failure. Brought me to tears.
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Mother's Day ramblings on 2008-05-11 18:20:40 |
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Wow, I totally agree about the holidays. I get depressed around the holidays because it's like EXPECTED to be the best day of the year or something. But, I get depressed a lot so maybe that's just me. ha
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Not Even A Goodbye..... on 2008-05-11 17:17:14 |
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Wowww... I can't even imagine how you feel knowing that movers were coming. Hopefully you feel better for at least getting to say how you feel. My heart goes out to you though about him moving... very sad.
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Beware...PMS and RLS are making me cranky on 2008-05-09 11:53:11 |
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I feel your pain, I get RLS sometimes too and it is the worst... I hate that creepy crawly feeling and how suddenly you just have to MOVE. ughhhhhh
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DO YOU THINK I'LL HAVE HOMEWORK??? on 2008-05-09 11:50:54 |
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Do it!!!
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Sorry Doesn't Cut It on 2008-05-09 11:47:15 |
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I have a feeling he will come to his senses too... I think he will want to know what you had to say, especially before he leaves. You deserve to at least get it off your chest so you don't have to keep it in forever after he moves.
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Water makes me cry... on 2008-05-08 11:37:18 |
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aw, we've all been there. hang in there!
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Bad Omen? on 2008-05-07 17:59:59 |
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Could have been a sign that today wasn't the best day... but he might feel the same way, guys are weird about that kind of stuff. Good luck again!!!
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BUSY DAY....GOOD DAY! on 2008-05-07 13:15:03 |
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That sounds like a fantastic day! I love to cook and have always wanted to attend a food or wine show.
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From the cornbread pan... on 2008-05-06 16:34:31 |
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Cute entry, your relationship with your daughter reminds me of the relationship I have with my dad.
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Thanks on 2008-05-06 16:28:34 |
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Good LUCK!!!! Keep us posted!!
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I thought you were just chilling in the bathroom?! on 2008-05-06 11:17:00 |
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ha ha... i'll admit it, both myself and my best friend have done that before. her in the closet and me in the garbage can!! hahahahha... oops.
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My head hurts! on 2008-05-06 11:13:59 |
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I get terrible migraines, too. They are the absolute worst things in the world.
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CAN I CLAIM TEMPORARY INSANITY??? on 2008-05-06 11:05:34 |
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aww you're not an ass! Just having a bad day... we all deserve to be in a bad mood sometimes. Hang in there, you're light is coming.
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Passive tense of the verb on 2008-05-06 10:59:06 |
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I think maybe she needed like a tangible item to give her a real reason to leave. Like maybe she sees KP as, to use your analogy, an apparition, not REALLY there, ya know? And maybe seeing a tangible ITEM would, to her, turn her into something real, something solid, someONE that would force her to have to face the situation, and own up and leave. Just an idea as I haven't followed your entire story, but have tried to get as much as I could. :) Good luck!
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Grandma, please let someone else talk... on 2008-05-06 10:54:30 |
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Interesting! Never been or heard about anyone that had been to a psychic... interesting stuff.
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It's not goodbye, it's I'll talk to you later... on 2008-05-06 10:49:52 |
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OW--
We will miss your posts and your engaging writing. Hope you come back soon. Also hope your story has a happy ending.
--jaded
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Struggle on 2008-05-06 10:45:50 |
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Do it, Do it, Do it! Good Poem :)
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Can't Bury Them Anymore on 2008-05-04 20:52:21 |
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TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!!!!!!!! If he doesn't respond, he's moving anyway right??? DOOOO ITTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I Hate You Too on 2008-05-03 13:10:17 |
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Awww... you should ask him if he wants to take it easy with you tonight... wink wink. :)
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Back to fun on 2008-05-02 14:07:39 |
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Cute!!
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I don't like the DMV, Cell Phones, or Children on 2008-05-02 13:43:59 |
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The DMV is hell on Earth. Agreed.
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Snow = maybe we could shut off AC? on 2008-05-02 13:38:59 |
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I LOVE TOP CHEF!!! It's my favorite show too. Spike is um completely a cokehead dude he has to be. Yuck. So jealous that you get to go to the food and wine challenge, those tickets are like 800 bucks a piece!!
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All those years they were here first on 2008-05-02 13:31:29 |
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That's a crazy meeting story! Mine was crazy too, fun memory to share with us! thanks!
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Spin me round again and rub my eyes on 2008-05-02 13:20:35 |
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Dang dude, nothing for your birthday?? That's totally disappointing. Weird connection-- I am from both Iowa and Colorado. Now living in Cali, but I grew up in both states and attended college in Iowa. Small world. My parents still live in Idaho Springs. Take care! Oh and you should have bought yourself a gift for his birthday and given him an "IOU" for a birthday present on yours. lol...
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LEE IACOCCA'S NEW BOOK....A GOOD READ! on 2008-05-02 11:03:44 |
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Really good post. I agree, we are heading for disaster...
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An Andy Rooney/pet peeve moment here on 2008-05-01 14:55:32 |
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Ha ha, I tried to put up a fight against kids chewing gum in my class and decided I have bigger battles. But yes, it is annoying!!
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Needing to let go on 2008-05-01 13:32:58 |
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You don't want to turn your heart off, and you shouldn't have too. Sad for you today :-(
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