This is getting absolutely ridiculous.
So as I updated last night, Gill thought he had been texting with Channon, flirting. I did not know this until I went home and told B about what had happend with Channon on IM. I texted her, "FYI- Gill though that he was texting with you, not dan, and he was still trying to get with/flirt with you by saying he missed you. Goes with why I said "interesting."" This, of course, illicited no response.
I told B that this was all stupid, unnecessary drama, and this whole thing needs to STOP. He called Gill and told him that he had been texting with Dan the whole time, and that Channon was now not speaking to me. He said he would stop (yeah right).
So anyway, I catch Gill on IM and I talk to him some about what is going on, and I tell him that I told Channon that he had thought he was texting with her. Irony would have it, that just at that moment, Dan texts Gill saying, "you know this is Dan right?" I.e. trying to catch ME in a lie of some sort. I said, Gill, you HAVE to admit that you thought it was Channon, otherwise you will be royally screwing me over. He said he texted back "no I thought it was channon." Thank you!
So anyway as the night goes on, he says he will cool it down (although he is still completely interested in her). He couldn't believe that Dan would be texting with him after him trying to STILL hit on his girlfriend! I said, I KNOW DUDE ITS WEIRD.
So meanwhile I had to figure out what the fuck was going on between Channon and me. I know she was irritated by me saying "interesting" and being vague and not explaining myself. I can understand how that would irritate someone and make them upset, but does that illicit the silent treatment??
So I get to work this morning and I try to open up a chat with her. I say "So I'm guessing you got my text last night?" No response.
So finally, I wrote an e-mail (which I will post after this entry). FInally she g-chatted me and said "I read your email and I don't have time to respond, I will respond later." I said "alright well could you at least give me an idea why in the world you aren't talking to me." to which she said, "because dude you say bitchy comments from time to time, and I don't like it. Yesterday being a perfect example." I said, "alright, well you say things that offend me as well. all i said yesterday was "interesting" i didnt want to make anyone mad by saying anything, i was trying to avoid conflict which obviously failed. you've stated in the last week in a round about way that your relationship is better than mine and that gill is better than b or i. if those are your personal opinions fine, but i think its silly to purposely say hurtful things.
i didnt mean to make you upset yesterday, thats why i DIDNT want to go into it." To which she said... " Right. well I enver said anything like that about your relationship vs. mine, but I will respond to your email later." By this time I was really upset... I said something ot the effect of " i said in a round about way, and so obviously you recognize saying a hurtful thing comparing b and gill and I. I don't have internet at home all the time, so I Might not get it, but thanks."
I'm so irritated, this is getting RIDICULOUS. She has been playing these stupid games for years and that's the reason why our friendship stopped in the first place. For some reason, she really enjoys drama, she gets off on having something to be mad about. Me on the other hand, I can't handle it, I don't like it, and it ruins my whole day, every day that it is going on.
I am going to post the e-mail I sent her and get your opinions.
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