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‘Samoa men precede sexual activity by singing romantic songs and reciting poetry for their women, first preparing their minds with sensual thoughts and then preparing their bodies with sensual touching. – The emphasis is on savoring all the sensual and spiritual aspects of sex rather than looking toward the goal of immediate gratification.’
I came across this while doing my homework for a class. I don’t usually take school-related topics to heart, but this one put up red flags in my mind. So, what’s happened to the care and romance of love making; Aka: sex??
Right now it seems to be a wam-bam-thank-you-mam-act?! Women want to be lulled, woo-d, and be shown some romantic foreplay. Come on (!) fellow ladies, aren’t you hungry for a little of what the woman in the first paragraph is experiencing. Guys: it may seem like a bit of work t put thought sex, but it will speak volumes in the way your special lady reacts. Maybe you’ll see it through her eyes, her kiss, her touch, or from deep between her thighs. I challenge you to give it a try.
Ladies: how can we be graced with this from the man in our lives? Most importantly, how do we do it without the results of bruised egos and negative-izing the guy’s drive?
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Posted by The1Blog on 2008-01-24 22:41:17 | Rating: | Views: 74
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Ok, I probably shouldn't even be here...why am I here?:P But, there is this lil voice inside me. An astrology book said something to the degree that I have keen intuition on the matter though I may never speak a word. Watches out for the foreplay police and the G force(you know who you are:P). I am gonna be a bit of a girl and agree with you. But, I tend to look at things with a mixed perspective. I can be romantic, lavish, well-thought-out, creative...but not very labor intensive. If it takes too much energy/time, I may scrap an idea before it takes off. But, I am totally into making an experience of things. And, often, a fantasy. You could say I am constantly making a checklist of such things:P I'll leave it at that. But, there also comes a time(and is this any different than how housewives feel after they slave over a house all day and the husband comes home just expecting gratification?) when you can plan/wish for too much and ruin a moment. It's sort of like how I see weddings. Some favor the lavish, frilly production--very traditional/common--while others(including myself) prefer something simpler and far less stressful(like a private wedding on a beach). I am sure people will get plenty of wrong ideas...I am used to it. You don't know me.
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Posted by brainstormer
on 2008-01-27 00:26:00
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