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Well here I am sitting and writing and thinking, which is no suprise that, cause I find my self thinking and analyzing lots of things, but at last, on to these thoughts of mine. If many of you don't know and our new I use to go with a guy that I call "T" and well a few days ago he contacted me via IM and he was of course talking sweet nothings, like I've been trying to get a hold of your really bad the past couple of weeks, I miss you, and yadda yadda yadda. Okay well I don't know how to express to him how I'm feeling. Okay here's the thing, "T" is nice and all, but it just seem like when we did go together, that most of our relationship was based on sex and what not and that's not what I want a relationship based on, thus me telling him it was over, but in a really nice way, so that we could continue talking as friends and what not, but when he contacted me by IM the other day or so, he make it seems as if he wants to hook up and well to be honest I don't want to go back and now I'm haveing a hard time telling him that. I feel bad cause I've kind of leading him a little bit, but now I want to just come clean and tell him the blantent facts and how I truly feel and I don't know how to go about doing it.
I mean there is like a gazillion reason in my mind and heart that's holding me back from even wanting to be with him.
ღ We always make plans and he always falls through with them.
ღ I'm looking for something a little more serious and I don't have that strong of feelings for him, to have a serious relationship
ღ I'm pretty sure that both our families is unaware of each other
ღ I'm skeptical if he's even faithfull
and the list goes on and on, but yea I need HELP, cause I have no clue what to say and I'm just wondering if what I'm feeling is something I should be feeling and the reasons are more than justifiable to back those feelings.
Well g2g cause I gotta get up early. TTyL.
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Posted by Stickyicky on 2008-08-25 22:09:53 | Rating: | Views: 34
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Follow your heart and be honest with him....especially if you have ANY hope of salvaging a friendship with him. Be honest, but gentle. Nothing aggressive. Just a gentle explanation that you're looking for something different and that you can't find that while you're still going back and forth with him. The longer you drag it out....the worse it will become. Trust me. Been in a similar situation; Lost the friend. If he doesn't respect your decision following a mature explanation of your feelings, then he doesn't respect you....if he doesn't respect you.....he's not worth your time. (A lesson I'm still learning...... :-)
Good Luck!
Jade.
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Posted by JadedHope
on 2008-08-27 00:26:42
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Thanks! (^_^)v
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Posted by Stickyicky
on 2008-08-27 10:21:00
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