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Today I got the most terrible revelation, I spent one week chatting with a guy that contacted me through my HI5, at the beginning we got a nice conversation then he started asking to see me through my webcam I agreed, from that time on he started asking me to have cybersex, I politely said NO...he got all upset and got the nerve to insult me and started diminishing me...
OMG, Is this a new way of violating your rights?, sex is an intimate act with a person that you are attracted to, passion needs to be there in order to have an amazing sexual encounter (even if it is CYBERSEX you don’t have to do it with everyone), I feel no physical attraction for this guy but he assumes that since I'm chatting with him he is entitled to pressure me to perform masturbation in front of a webcam for his own gratification, it would be a different story if he was my type, it would have been MUTUAL gratification ; )
We all have the right to decline an invitation for a date, for sex or CYBERSEX, nobody have the right to pressure you after you said NO, that answer should be more than enough, you don't have to explain yourself to others in person or in virtual world.
Ladies respect your body. mind and soul. Don't take anybodys's crap.
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