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 Boys.. Help me understand them!!
This is my first blog and well i just wanted to join this to get answers
 none of my friends seem to understand this situation, im looking for advice from total strangers.
  I've been dating this guy for about 13 months now. Im pretty sure I love him, Well I love the him i use to know. Hes a different kind of person, cocky,yet cares what people think,He has no emotion really. When we first started dating, he seemed to really like me, i mean he we use to hang out almost everyday, he took me out to movies and bought me dinner and such.. when the relationship got more serious he told me he loved me all the time, told me how im beautiful, and perfect. 
Im a pretty insecure person even thought i dont have any right to be, because im not bad looking or fat or anything. and lately ive been getting wororied he doenst like me as much as he use too, i dont know if its me, or school's stressing him or his parents because they dont like him being with me, I dont know what it is but.. What does it mean when a guy tells you he wants more space to hang out with friends, calls you less and less, Says i love you less and becomes less emotional, says im dependent on him and i shouldnt think about him all the time, says he hates relationships because girls are so complicated and i had to pay for the whole anniversary dinner and movie and i bought him a card and he got me nothing. ( Because he lost his job, Not because hes a total mooch) 
any ways..  It just hurts so much to see the person your in love with, treat you like this. I cry almost every night thinking about how things use to be and how great it was.. i wonder what I did wrong?? I ask him if he still loves me; he says yes. I ask him if he still wants to date; he says yes. 
 
If anyone can help please respond!!  
    Posted by Speak898 on 2007-11-15 19:04:17 | Rating: | Views: 77
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Hi. Im just saying that if he loves you the way you love him then you you should tell him how you feel and he will understand
Posted by  MegaMuffin  on 2007-11-16 16:27:35 
  
Hi, I am in the same situation. I understand you completely. I am not in a position to give you any advice. I just want to tell you to be strong and believe in yourself.
Posted by  manee79  on 2007-11-18 13:43:20 
  
When you say your relationship became more serious, I presume that you started to sleep together. If not, what does he want from you? Why not ask him straight. Breaking up is difficult, better to put your cards on the table with him. What have you got to lose. At least you could move on.
Posted by  geoffreyalan  on 2008-10-07 03:10:09 
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