Posted by
tonyrayhutchison
on 2007-12-12 16:03:20 |
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| as the spark of love ignites a fire it burns to full intensity, we embrace its warmth, dance in the flames, but as we become used to it it doesnt feel so hot, the fires there, just aint the same heat, dont let the fire burn down to ash. If you love him find a way to fuel the flames |
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Posted by
2rivers
on 2007-12-12 17:18:26 |
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| Wow - I was going to say something but Tony said it so eloquently that my input is superfluous. SBR - what he said!- ignite that fire! |
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Posted by
tmar
on 2007-12-12 19:55:48 |
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| What I do is make a game of it. Trying something new each and every night. Not telling your partner what you want done but having him find that secret desire that lies among the embers adding more substance to the fires that are already there. Kind of corny but the light from those flames can almost blind you... :-) |
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Posted by
bloodclot36o
on 2007-12-12 23:49:52 |
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| These notions are only human nature for being simply animal in nature where it is common to fall in lust. In order to survive our ancestors needed such notions in order to successfully procreate. Though they are not unnatural they can provide quite the predicament for an individual in your situation. To follow these feelings is to simply embrace millennia of evolution but to disobey these notions is more of a concept of nobility than practicality. So the decision is up to the individual, even discussing such a concept with said partner might be in best interests. |
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Posted by
shawna
on 2007-12-13 07:01:41 |
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| do you think a man loves his wife if he is cheating on her and has been for 10 years with the same lady? he tells her that he cant go without her what the hell is up with that? should that be considered being in love with the wife |
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Posted by
Shattered_black_rose
on 2007-12-13 22:10:08 |
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It's not our sex life, that is perfectly fine, i'd be happy if i went the rest of my life only havign sex with him, it's more on an intellectual level. just talking, we don't talk anymore, because there is nothing left to talk about.
and I do love my Fiancee... and i honestly don't think i'd be the same without him...
But curiousity killed the cat (cat with a "K" in my case.) |
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Posted by
CryDemiFey
on 2008-02-20 16:33:08 |
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| I am in the same boat as you. So, if you figure out the answer please let me know also. The only solution I have is to fantasize but never act out. I know that its only a short term solution to a long term problem, but I'm flawed. What can I tell ya? |
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