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 Trampling New Ground
So in my last blog I mentioned how I have hit a rut and when I wrote that I meant it. But now, I think I've found the solution to my problem.  I've found...a new "romantic" interest to pursue. But of course as good as this sounds, there are always problems.



So let's call her Texas:

She's a year older than me.

She likes to party.

She's smart.

She genuinely likes me, when we're both sober!!!!

Ready for the problem???

She's a virgin...
Ok so I know it's actually a good thing, I kinda like it cuz it means she's clean, and cuz I have a fetish for virgins. But see there's more to it....she wants to STAY a VIRGIN til MARRIAGE!!!!! Now if you've been reading me for some time then you already why I have an issue with this.

I LIKE SEX!!!

And she knows this. How does she know this? Cuz girls didn't keep their mouths shut when we finish up our "encounters". So we actually talked about this and decided to stay friends who like each other...does that sound like me???
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Yeah I didn't think so either. So...I've come to a conclusion, I'm going to turn her into a FWB, friend with benefits. And if I can't convince her to have sex then fine....I have no attached commitment since we're not together. And if I can get her to have sex, well maybe there's room for a relationship then. I like her, I do...maybe it's just cuz of the rut but it feels like I do. So this sounds good to me.

Point: The best things in life exist when you keep your eyes open.

Til Next Time,
R.

    Posted by Shadows on 2009-10-15 19:44:43 | Rating: | Views: 41
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Ikies..I'm going to have to disagree. No relationship can really bloom with just sex. Only physical attachment and emotional disdain. You're a fool to think that any woman would last with you for a long time without some sort of resentment for taking advantage of their bodies.
How about leaving the good girls alone and finding a piece of ass on bootycall.com or plentyoffish.com? Seriously.
Posted by  emeraldangel02  on 2009-10-15 20:28:33 
  
Did I say there would only be sex? No, I'm completely open to having an emotional relationship as well, it's actually something I'd want to have. BUT I know that I want sex to be a part of the relationship I want to have. Taking advantage? You make it sound like I'm blackmailing her into sex, which is far from what is happening. How about keeping your bad memories and experiences to yourself. And am I looking for a long-term serious relationship? Nope. So a fool? Nah, just someone living my life waiting for something new and exiting to occur thank you very much.
Posted by  Shadows  on 2009-10-16 12:09:49 
  
How is she going to be an FB if she's not having sex? Defeats the purpose of that title...
Posted by  LexMorphic  on 2009-10-15 20:47:09 
  
Not necessarily, she's not opposed to trying oral or anything else besides penetration and because I don't do that with all of my friends I consider that a benefit.
Posted by  Shadows  on 2009-10-16 02:07:04 
  
I finally read this - better late the never right ??? ;-)

How's it going with her??
Posted by  helen1282  on 2009-10-21 18:56:42 
  
fucking terrible. most frustrating endeavor I've ever dealt with and so fucking done with even TRYING to be a good guy.
Posted by  Shadows  on 2009-10-22 03:25:18 
  
WHOA! That's not even close to the response I thought I would get. :( You know I'm here if you need to talk about it. :)

It'll get better... ;-)
Posted by  helen1282  on 2009-10-22 19:25:43 
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