It's a new day....
Have a party to attend this weekend not to sure if my former boss will be there but I'm concerned that he might be! He's a big fat flirt and has come on to me and many other people often.  Our mutual friend who we'll call (Flanman) who's having the party is his best freind but we all live in diffrent states. so this means he'll ( the past flirty boss) will have to travel. I need some feed back on how to handle this situation.  In the past I avoided many encounters outside of work because Mr. Flirty doesn't think he's out of line.  I have put him in his place a few times but he's relentless...ugh.  Is it appropiate to ask the Flanman if you know who's going to be there?  It's Flanman's party and I don't want him to worry about me.  I know he have concern if I ask who's showing.  Help how do I get the facts without asking the facts???  I know this appears simple but trust me it's not.